Here we can all be heard for a little while. Part 2

tea_lover

Gingernutty wrote: »

Has he been letting himself in while you were out? _pale_

I wouldn't be at all surprised.

Went to the police station to ask for advice. They took some details and I've got an incident number and an appointment tomorrow.

Did get the impression that they thought I should speak to him though. Surely I dont have to?

ETA: although she did say if he turns up again and I feel threatened to call 999.

tea_lover

Oh !!!!!!, he's outside again

calleyw

tea_lover wrote: »

Oh !!!!!!, he's outside again

Tea, call the police please.

Yours

Calley

Pyxis

Wheeeeeeee! Look what I just did! Spinkz started a thread telling you how to make a meme for someone on the forum! :T

elsien

tea_lover wrote: »

I wouldn't be at all surprised.

Went to the police station to ask for advice. They took some details and I've got an incident number and an appointment tomorrow.

Did get the impression that they thought I should speak to him though. Surely I dont have to?

ETA: although she did say if he turns up again and I feel threatened to call 999.

You don't have to speak to him if you don't want to. However if you think it might ram the message home, nothing to stop you telling the police you want them there when you do so. Don't let anyone pressure you into something that feels uncomfortable.

Edit - another name for the harrassment warning is a police information notice, if that gets mentioned at all.

Melly, were any of your meetings productive?

elona

tea

I agree with calley - call the police and at least there will be a record of his behaviour.

mellymoo74

The ha meeting was the usual Elsien at least I'm going to have support (someone else doing it),for a while soon.
HSE Director was interesting.

Tea if he is still outside call the police please.
Better to have called them and have them tell him to leave you be and him do it than think your making a fuss and him continue to do this.

Waves_and_Smiles

Awwwwww, Pyxis! I have saved that, I adore it! Thank you!

Tea, you don't have to speak to FOH. At this point I would cut all contact entirely and not even respond to texts. Chances are he is just annoyed that you are taking a stand and is being pathetic but don't risk it. If he keeps coming back call the police, eventually they will get sick of him, too. Certainly get his mum to pick his stuff up rather than him but don't worry about that right now, wait until he backs off or is forced to do so. Big hugs.

I am done! Presents wrapped, WaSp is taking Milliefleur's gifts over next week and we have a food delivery on Wednesday. There is nothing else for me to do...anyone want any help preparing? I'm bored!

whitewing

Could you make a whole load of paper snowflakes to hang from our ceiling?

Waves_and_Smiles

Hahahaha! I would love to, whitewing! I used to love making those, I would make them in the middle of August!