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Here we can all be heard for a little while. Part 2

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  • tea_lover
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    Awww....cute doggies!!
  • mellymoo74
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    New hair
  • mellymoo74
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    You feeling okay tea?
  • Just slept on the sofa from about 8pm until now. Feeling so tired tonight.

    Tea, what your ex did both this afternoon and last night is harassment, not to mention the texts. Do not hesitate in calling the police if you feel you need to. How long did he hang around before he finally gave up and went? I am not surprised that you are scared, I would be too. That is not normal what he is doing. :(
  • Nice hair Melly :) I'll hopefully be dyeing mine that colour before Christmas. What brand do you use?

    MIL phoned before, BIL has just lost half his thumb :eek: He works in a factory making plastic packaging, and his thumb got crushed. He sent us a photo, and it was pretty gruesome!

    Felt like a right b*tch though because sometimes I just open my mouth without thinking. Was feeling pretty grumpy as I was tired and D was doing my head in.

    I don't know why he was annoying me, but he just was when he kept on saying "you take care of yourself" over and over again to his brother (who he doesn't speak to for most of the year), and he was I felt, abit over the top, as at that point I'm thinking it was probably only the tip (still bad to lose a part of you I know) and I snapped "bit over the top aren't you? It's not like he's lost a limb or anything?" As soon as I said it, I felt bad, especially when BIL then sent us a pic....and it was bad! Just tired and snappy and short tempered tonight. :(

    Bet I won't be able to sleep now with sleeping on the sofa :(
  • mellymoo74
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    Using the salonist black at the moment (and 40 vol bleach for my streaks)

    I have cut 5" off its a lot better.

    Oh is now panicking about my swollen face lol. Told him.tca would be brutal
  • mellymoo74
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    Wouldn't like to be the company your bil works for
  • mellymoo74 wrote: »
    Wouldn't like to be the company your bil works for

    Me neither. I forgot to mention, that his other brother had a similar injury a few years back (crushed his hand, luckily didn't lose it) and was medically retired and got a huge pay out.

    What is a tca?
  • whitewing
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    I really like your hair, melly, (and your eyes and your cheekbones).

    georgie, I feel asleep on the sofa tonight too. Sorry about your BIL. sorry also that you feel bad about the remark you made, but I expect your OH will see it in context of your tiredness (maybe even was thinking similarly himself). At least you didn't say it to BIL or MIL. It's one of those in-the-moment remarks that is not worth beating yourself up about.
    :heartsmil When you find people who not only tolerate your quirks but celebrate them with glad cries of "Me too!" be sure to cherish them. Because these weirdos are your true family.
  • System
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    You look amazing melly :D

    Tea: please if you haven't done already contact the police. What FOH is doing is at the very least harassment but tbh sounds like full on stalking. he's evidently trying to exert some control as perhaps he is finally realising its over and doesn't like that. stand you're ground and report him, he's out of order

    i'm currently annoyed i just pad nearly £20 for a taxi :mad: usually its £10 but i couldn't find a black cab so booked an uber taxi. never again!
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