I am in a mess and don't know what to do

[Deleted User]

Whilst I am still laid up in bed since the accident I have made a few decisions. Will let you know when I sort it all out. OH is NOT involved

Anoneemoose

uselessnow wrote: »

You are wrong with your comment. The other driver reversed onto me when I was approaching a junction to turn left. I was the innocent party and they admitted they were at fault. Now in the hands of the other parties insurance.

uselessnow wrote: »

It was the other party Gigervamp but people immediately want to blame me on here. At least you realised that it may not be me to blame

uselessnow wrote: »

I am on DLA and ESA. Was on incapacity benefit before things changed. You don't get free prescriptions on that benefit

Totally (and deliberately) missing (or ignoring) the points people are making. I notice how you always reply to those that you think have 'slighted' you.

Once again, you really need to get your backside into gear. When are you going to realise that you're going nowhere, fast? If only you would accept this, you could actually move forward. That is what is so frustrating.

Not sure why I am drawn to this thread but every time you post, I live in hope that you've woken up and smelt the coffee, so to speak.

RuthnJasper

Ilona wrote: »

I totally agree. A dessert is a want not a need. I never have a dessert because my meals are big plates of healthy vegetables. I am full after that, no room.
Ilona

I quite often just have a glass of squash or fruit juice for "dessert" if I fancy something sweet. But that's just me; I prefer savoury stuff.

Everyone should be able to have a pud. within reason if they want one.

Hope you are OK Use Less. x

RuthnJasper

uselessnow wrote: »

Whilst I am still laid up in bed since the accident I have made a few decisions. Will let you know when I sort it all out. OH is NOT involved

Good luck with your decisions and choices. Who knows? Maybe the unfortunate incident which has laid you up might turn out to have at least some positive outcome? I hope so.

Hope your car and your leg get sorted soon.

comeandgo

Are you in bed with whiplash?

Aphidgirl

I think a few people commenting on this thread have forgotten what it says on the first page of the board:

"Pls remember Debt-Free Wannabe's for support and help not judgement"

Best Wishes to you Use less now, I hope you've come up with some good ideas whilst recovering in bed!

Anoneemoose

Aphidgirl wrote: »

I think a few people commenting on this thread have forgotten what it says on the first page of the board:

"Pls remember Debt-Free Wannabe's for support and help not judgement"

Best Wishes to you Use less now, I hope you've come up with some good ideas whilst recovering in bed!

I will assume you are referring to me. And if so, yes you're right. However, most of us who have posted on here on more than one occasion have suggested things that OP has completely knocked back suggestion wise. In addition to which, OP herself has been quite 'snippy' with other posters when she (incorrectly) believes they have slighted her. Feral Moon is one example.

Practically every single suggestion on here has been discounted because OP has an excuse for not changing anything.

I, and others were initially sympathetic - I can relate to chronic illness and that is why I suggested that she cannot go on as she is without damaging her health further. People have given helpful and friendly advice, but for the most part OP does just ignore it.

The sad thing is, a lot of the posters have 'given up' because of OP's attitude. I have also previously said that I wish her the best with her debt busting, I hate to think of someone suffering as OP must be. But, in all fairness, what I have said is true, if a little harsh.

ampersand

You have not at any point been harsh, Anoneemoose.

I am one who has stopped feeding op's preference for debt-blindness and deception of self/husband. Of course, that is her right.

But this Thread wouldn't still be scab-picking if op hadn't asked, in strong and desperate terms, for help. No person twisted her non-writing arm behind her back to make her begin it.
Inevitable events, still unfinished, did that.

[Deleted User]

Aphidgirl wrote: »

I think a few people commenting on this thread have forgotten what it says on the first page of the board:

"Pls remember Debt-Free Wannabe's for support and help not judgement"

Well not bad going for 19+ pages with the OP responding? They could have just as easily been ignored.


This reminds me of a thread that should just have become a diary in a lot of respects.


This forum also carries another important message that is of such: "This is an open forum - anyone can post."


Who also names their thread? whilst many people have to make the serious choice to go bankrupt every 5 minutes in the UK it comes across as rather mocking.

[Deleted User]

2 credit cards paid off completely. Only 2 more to go.