Am i being unreasonable?

Errata

missbiggles1 wrote: »

Tolerable, not pleasurable.

Surely holidays are meant to be pleasurable, not simply tolerated?

Angry_Bear

Errata wrote: »

Surely holidays are meant to be pleasurable, not simply tolerated?

A flight is generally how you get to a holiday rather than the holiday itself.

Errata

Angry_Bear wrote: »

A flight is generally how you get to a holiday rather than the holiday itself.

Indeed, but most if not all people consider flights to be part of the holiday experience.

FBaby

Indeed, but most if not all people consider flights to be part of the holiday experience.

Unless you hate flying and it becomes a mean to the holiday experience, the part to just get over with to enjoy the rest.

bagpussbear

elliew92 wrote: »

. I am trying to help him overcome his fears not make them worse.

But does he want to overcome his fear about the flying at the moment?

I realise you want to help him, but your posts do come across as a little overbearing ie. you MUST fix this for him as you need to go on holiday.

There is the small possibility he may never want, or will, step on a plane again.

Please don't get me wrong, I do sympathise - my husband is the same, but at the end of the day I love him, and if it means I never get on a plane for a holiday again, I can live with that because there are other alternatives.

Leave him be for the moment. And take a look at this website, which I found invaluable for planning our train holidays -
http://www.seat61.com/index.html - why not travel to Spain, Greece, or the South of France - you can have your hot holiday, and he doesn't have to step on a plane