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geminilady

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: at Gitdog you do make me laugh elsien

geminilady

MU If she has been there a year she should know the job by know,you should have made her sweep the floor it is not exactly rocket science but while you are doing it for her she seems like the type who will let you.No wonder you are feeling stressed and it is not fare when someone does not pull their weight,did the manager have a word with her?

calleyw

xXMessedUpXx wrote: »

Give me bloody strength :mad:

The lass i was on today with managed to not only stress out myself but also my manager (who rarely gets stressed). There are no words to describe her. She's been here over a year, she should know what jobs need doing (example-she was asked to clean the shop floor...which she's been asked to many a time...

Beki,

have a huge hug. People like that drive me up the wall. I hope you manage to get through sunday ok.

Ok my day ended well. At 10pm get a message from a friend to say he was popping in.

Please don't think badly of me. He is married but there is nothing going on between us honestly. He is nice bloke and we just chat. But he lies to his wife about where he is or who he is with. As she would chuck a huge hissy fit as the jealous type. I have no interest in him like that what so ever.

I have told him what he needs to do, leave but he wont. He thinks that she is cheating on him. But he has to choose to want to leave. Even offered my spare bedroom for him to stay in for a while at a price LOL!!!

Anyway sat out in the garden with some candles lit and had a coffee. It was nice. And another friend is coming over tomorrow morning for a few hours. Yes it is bloke. I only seem to have male friends LOL!!!

We will try out my new garden loppers. Decided to keep it than faff around with a refund etc.

What a social butterfly I am :rotfl:

Yours

Calley

System

geminilady wrote: »

MU If she has been there a year she should know the job by know,you should have made her sweep the floor it is not exactly rocket science but while you are doing it for her she seems like the type who will let you.No wonder you are feeling stressed and it is not fare when someone does not pull their weight,did the manager have a word with her?

I think she's had a word with her about talking and having conversations when she's meant to be serving but that's fallen on deaf ears. I honestly wanted to tell her to sweep but i was trying extra hard to bite my tongue because i felt like i was going to snap at her Seems to be a thing with the young uns, another one of them was asking me to clean down something she didn't want to do, though with her i actually did tell her "nobody likes doing it, but you've been asked to do just do it".

Problem is unless she actually does something wrong she can get a warning for, they can't do anything about her being so damn stupid. Its at a point now where i don't want to work with her. But i have to so i just have to suck it up. But i swear to god if sunday is a repeat of tonight i will probably end up saying something.

System

Cross posted with you Calley, sounds like you had an enjoyable evening. Nothing wrong with male friends. If he's unhappy, sadly he needs to figure it out for himself, only he can make that choice, but its good for him to know he has a friend he can turn too. Peraonally i can;t be dealing with jealous types. That said i have been guilty of being jealous in the past but tbh i realised it doesn't actually achieve anything. If someone is going to cheat they will. And if you're jealous and constantly getting at them its more likely to drive them away. I understand a small amount is ok, in a way it shows you care, but if its affecting your relationship then its not ok.

calleyw

xXMessedUpXx wrote: »

Cross posted with you Calley, sounds like you had an enjoyable evening. Nothing wrong with male friends. If he's unhappy, sadly he needs to figure it out for himself, only he can make that choice, but its good for him to know he has a friend he can turn too. Peraonally i can;t be dealing with jealous types. That said i have been guilty of being jealous in the past but tbh i realised it doesn't actually achieve anything. If someone is going to cheat they will. And if you're jealous and constantly getting at them its more likely to drive them away. I understand a small amount is ok, in a way it shows you care, but if its affecting your relationship then its not ok.

Exactly. when he is out she keeps ringing him. Tonight it was only the once while he was with me. But she said to him you do know you have a wife at home.

He hardly goes out :rotfl:

I have never been the jealous type. I was with my ex for some reason. I think its because when he was younger he was a bit of male !!!!!! and then he would tell me stories of what him and his mates use to get up to. And the 2 relationships before me he had still been with his last partner while seeing the new one. And all the messing about made me feel a little insecure sometimes.

Yours

Calley

System

OMG

So angry!! :mad:

SOMEONE has poured water on all of my candles that were in the bathroom, rendering them useless!!! I had to throw them away and i've now left a very angry note asking for them to be replaced as they have ruined them.

geminilady

xXMessedUpXx wrote: »

OMG

So angry!! :mad:

SOMEONE has poured water on all of my candles that were in the bathroom, rendering them useless!!! I had to throw them away and i've now left a very angry note asking for them to be replaced as they have ruined them.

Oh dear you are having a bad day,were the candles lit? maybe someone thought they were a fire hazard

System

geminilady wrote: »

Oh dear you are having a bad day,were the candles lit? maybe someone thought they were a fire hazard

To my knowledge they weren't lit, i've been at work all day so unless someone used them without my permission and forgot how fire works and extinguished them with water, i reckon this is deliberate sabotage.

I'm mainly !!!!ed off as i was looking forward to a nice relaxing candlelit bath after work tomorrow...which i now can't have...cos i have no candles that will actually light due to them being all soggy and waterlogged.

I tried to be polite in my note.....

geminilady

sorry you have had such a bad day maybe whoever did it will replace them by tomorrow if they have any decency they will and you can still have your bath.Hope tomorrow is a better day for you.