Here we can all be heard for a little while

calleyw

Sorry I am fuming.

Just caught someone letting there dog crap on my grass out side my house. He cleaned it up but its not like its near the path its up close to the house and piece of grass is at least 6ft wide.

When I asked him not to let his dog crap on my grass he blamed me saying its my fault as I don't have a fence up and its hard to keep the dog off. he has a retractable lead so no excuse.

I told him to let me know where he lives so I can go and crap on his grass and not clean it up.

I don't care if he cleans it up or not. Sorry but I am really hacked off with that sort of attitude its not like you think is not part of someones garden. And not the first time he has done it either.

Why would you even think its appropriate to do that?

Yours

Calley

Wellyboots6

Aww Calley that's not nice. Next time you see him you should go out with a fluffy towel and some hand soap, ask him if the public facilities are to his liking!

Although little Sod did embarrass me highly once. There are bungalows that back on to the local park with big patio windows. We were playing ball on the park when all of a sudden he pegged off and pushed through a hedge into one of the bungalow gardens. I raced after him and found him squatting on their lawn right in front of the patio windows. If that wasn't bad enough, they were holding a wake at the house, and there was a crowd of people dressed in black holding sausage rolls and pointing through the window at my squatting dog
Never poop scooped so quickly in all my life!!

calleyw

katy721 wrote: »

Aww Calley that's not nice. Next time you see him you should go out with a fluffy towel and some hand soap, ask him if the public facilities are to his liking!

As I said not the first time I have witnessed him doing this. And he has the dog on a retractable lead so even more so no excuse.

As he can keep the dog close to him. Its my fault for not having a fence!!!!

Yours

Calley

calleyw

Feeling really crappy now. Not going to explain what has happened but its knocked me back.

No body likes me can't even seem to attract anyone half decent. And another weekend spent on my own feeling like a big pile of fat crap that I am.

Think I might go to bed and not bother getting up again for a few days. Just got myself so worked up that I had been sick.

Maybe it time to cut all my losses and sell up and disappear. No gives a monkey about me and no one would miss me.

Yours

Calley

Pyxis

calleyw wrote: »

Feeling really crappy now. Not going to explain what has happened but its knocked me back.

No body likes me can't even seem to attract anyone half decent. And another weekend spent on my own feeling like a big pile of fat crap that I am.

Think I might go to bed and not bother getting up again for a few days. Just got myself so worked up that I had been sick.

Maybe it time to cut all my losses and sell up and disappear. No gives a monkey about me and no one would miss me.

Yours

Calley

Calley, I'm hearing very clearly that you have had a massive knock-back, been rejected in some way, so it's perfectly understandable that you are now feeling so foul. I'd be feeling foul too. I react very badly to any perceived rejection.
Let's look at some facts:-
On this thread, you have been understanding, you have been funny, you have been creative, you have been kind to others. You have been helpful, you have been complimentary. You've shared the fort, and the biscuits, and the cakes, and the pets.
You've been pulling yourself up by the shoestrings. You've been decorating, gardening, seeing your OH. Even going for a couple of job interviews.

With all that going for you, why wouldn't we miss you?
Of course we would.

You may think you're worthless, but you are not. You've got a lot going for you, even if you can only see the carp at the moment.

Some days, I can only see the carp in me, but deep down I know it's not just carpy Pyxis that's out there!
You may not have actual voices in your ear like WaS, but you've still got those inner demon voices telling you you're carp. Well, Pyxis she say, "Desist, thou demon voices, thou speaketh with forked tongues!"

(I think I'm mixing up mediaeval English with 1950s Wild West Indians, but you get the drift!)


So, no more talk of disappearing, please! We'd be very sad indeed!

Indie_Kid

I am having to seriously consider asking for my meds to be upped. Do not want; but it has to be done, I think. Problem is, some of the side effects are horrible. I think this is why despite getting 8 hours a night sleep, I still need an afternoon nap.

Flybaby

I hate commercial flights as much as the rest of the world. I enjoy the flying, but who likes being part of the cattle herd. Flying for me is when I get to actually fly the plane, which I have of course only ever done occasionally as very generous birthday gifts. I used to be put on planes regularly as a child from the age of around 5 when being shuttled between parents, so was used to flying alone from a young age( and at that age I was cute and adorable with blonde curls and green eyes so the air stewards spoilt me rotten and the pilots often let me in the cockpit) - worked greatly to my advantage because I can travel wherever and whenever to see friends around the world or for work without batting an eyelid.


Calley - HE DID WHAT?!!???!?!?!!! That is beyond the pail - I cannot imagine how I would react to such a thing, but I think you handled it very reasonably as I am sure my reaction would have involved a hose on full power at the least. Your fault because you don't have a fence?????? LMAO. Responsible dog owners eh???? NOT. I am furious for you. Stay strong - you are clearly having a carp day - try not to look too far ahead - ice cream, bed, film.......get through an hour at a time - get today over with and review in the morning.....Big special{calleysquish}. What Pyx said ( as always) is great advice. If you lived near me, you would be coming over mine tonight as soon as I have shuffled hubby out to pub ( not hard!) so that we can hang upside down on sofa, watch carp zombie films, float maltesers, chomp on cheesy bites and I think, considering the week we've all had, drink the forts allocation of wine! xx


Katy - glad today went well and you feel calmer. I think escapee is going to be perfectly on time for you - maybe one day early.


Pyx - {squish} just for being you


Hello - waves and squishes to all those I have forgotten to say hi too!


I managed to go supermarket shopping today on my own - relieved as I have been avoiding it for some time as it seems to stress me out (always feel like everyone is looking at me) but today was ok and I am really pleased I managed it.

codemonkey

((((calley )))) Please don't go away. You're a good person and we would miss you, as would your husband. I know being single is hard - I had many dating disasters of epic proportions before I met DH. In fact, he was the last one I was ever going to meet cause I'd had enough. I just wanted to curl up on my sofa and be by myself. In fact, I wasn't going to show up at all.

Appreciate being single while you still can though - I miss many things about it: Having the bed to myself and starfishing; doing what I wanted, when I wanted; cooking and eating food that I like (DH can't deal with spicy food so I have tone it down); going to get a drink without the tv programme I'm watching be turned to Sky Sports news; slobbing on the sofa with a huge bar of chocolate without getting looks or comments; reading a book or surfing the internet without being forced to look up every 5 seconds at something he finds funny/interesting on tv which is normally neither funny or interesting; getting a takeaway when I cba cooking (DH disapproves of takeaways and I used to have a routine at the weekends when I'd have a whole day to myself doing nothing, getting a takeaway of whatever I wanted and now I can't do that - I wouldn't mind but I cook at least 98% of the time). I did get lonely when I was single too and scared but... sometimes I think if I had a time machine, I'd forgo going back in time and not letting my ex away with breaking my heart, or whatever, and go back to when I could just sit on my sofa quietly.

Can you tell that I have PMS?

codemonkey

Also, in other news, my well done on losing some weight dress has arrived. :j

Pyxis

codemonkey wrote: »

Also, in other news, my well done on losing some weight dress has arrived. :j

Any chance of a headless pic of you in it?



(Headless only to preserve your anonymity! :rotfl: )