Here we can all be heard for a little while

codemonkey

Pyxie, Pyxie, I had my dinner and 1.5 squares of chocolate (only cause DH handed them to me).

He's doing my head in. I get that it's frustrating for him when I'm in pain and there's nothing he can do about it but surely that doesn't mean he gets to play computer games and ignore me? I made dinner earlier and brought his through and he grunted at me to take it back to the kitchen. Also he's playing on his DS without headphones so all I could hear was jingly jangly music. So I've just changed the bedsheets to lovely, lovely fresh line dried outside clean sheets and I'm letting DA dog lie on his side. Hehe.

Pyxis

codemonkey wrote: »

Pyxie, Pyxie, I had my dinner and 1.5 squares of chocolate (only cause DH handed them to me).

He's doing my head in. I get that it's frustrating for him when I'm in pain and there's nothing he can do about it but surely that doesn't mean he gets to play computer games and ignore me? I made dinner earlier and brought his through and he grunted at me to take it back to the kitchen. Also he's playing on his DS without headphones so all I could hear was jingly jangly music. So I've just changed the bedsheets to lovely, lovely fresh line dried outside clean sheets and I'm letting DA dog lie on his side. Hehe.

You're so funny! :rotfl:

whitewing

We saw Inside Out and I loved it. Littlewing enjoyed it but was a little young.

The other adults were roaring with laughter. Obviously parents of tweens!

My favourite emotion was Anger. I wonder if this was because he was cute or if it was because I was angry growing up and still seem to be working through some of it.

I really loved the film actually and I am not normally a fan of cartoons. I did think that Lucee would enjoy it, WaS. It would be interesting to know what all the folks in your head think of it, WaS. (Shame we can't use you as an experiment but it wouldn't be very ethical).

lostinrates

Are you small , or rather normal breasted people complaining? . What I would give to be able to pop out braless sometimes or buy from the prettier shelves of bras! . I think we have become confused with larger sizes becoming so predominant from increasing weight and augmentation as to what is 'normal'. Breasts of all sizes can be wonderful, IMO, and worth appreciating for what they are! I am happy enough with mine, but I'd be happy enough with smaller, perter ones too. If they are healthy, enjoy them.

lostinrates

So now I am having a dress dilemma, does a white maxi dress on a fat bird look like I am running away from asylum in my nightie?

Wellyboots6

Decision is made. I am non-contagious so can go to the group tomorrow. I really must make myself go! Hopefully they might have some bra advice too, as I am at risk of tripping myself up over them soon unless I can find a bra that doesn't hurt.

Had a bit of a triggering conversation last night which has had me all out of sorts today. Trying not to carry it through this evening though, need to learn how to either avoid these situations in the first place, or work through it. No idea where you learn things like that though.

lostinrates

Pyxis wrote: »

Yes Katy, it's never too early to go! As Solarjunkie says, it's good to find out as much as poss and hear all the different views and experiences! It's like being in a very select club, too!





Well, I've never heard that! Nor do I think it's necessarily correct. Maybe it's an option.
Personally, I hate butterflies, although I do have a lot of earrings that have them. I much prefer wires. The butterflies of studs are so easy to drop and lose, and are uncomfortable compared with wires.

However, without the plastic, those stud backs would be tiny weeny. They're hard enough at times to put on anyway, trying to find the little hole with the stick through your earlobe. Without the plastic backing it'd be a nightmare!

The hole on one side is really hard for me to get any thing not straight through for some reason, so I tend to prefer earrings with butterflies! But I have lots of nice 'hook' earrings which I battle with sometimes.

Because of my TN what's really important is that they are either light or that if I get a flare I can remove them quite easily, so hoops that close are a nono for me, I cannot be faff ing trying to open something while trying to get my earings out.

Wellyboots6

A white maxi dress would look lovely. You could accesorise it with anything you wanted too.
I have a white maternity dress but can't wear it as it is knee length and my legs look like ham!

Pyxis

lostinrates wrote: »

So now I am having a dress dilemma, does a white maxi dress on a fat bird look like I am running away from asylum in my nightie?

No! Rather than the bonkers wife in the attic, you'd look like an enigmatic Jane Eyre exploring the corridors at night with her hair in a plait and carrying a candlestick!

Flybaby

Hello all - hugs n {squishes} to those who need. Rough couple of days for me.
Thanks for all the chat about colouring - have downloaded loads of free pages from the web and am enjoying it.


Pyx - the wise - Have slept on my front all my life and with large breasts (34HH) and a huge curve in my lower back -I am in constant pain in lower back. 2 years ago I had a disc in my neck explode as I was walking down the street which ended up in having disc replaced. Absolutely not fun, as they went in from the front (less risk to spinal cord) so I have a lovely munster style scar across front of throat now. Can only assume it is from years of extreme sports, carrying huge breasts and front sleeping.


So, to those that wish for bigger chest size - don't! I was a D cup by the time I was 11 and huge breasts have been the bain of my life and the cause of much bullying, embarrassment and confidence sapping experiences. Add to that some severe and constant back pain, serious back problems and having to adapt everything to fit my body - be it clothes, surf board, motorbike, bed, work equipment etc - you can imagine the expense...........I can honestly say larger breasts are not a fun thing to have. I eagerly await the day I have saved enough to have mine reduced to a normal size.


Melly - so pleased to hear there is positive forward movement.