What would you do?

Loz01

omg - Im sorry OP I know this is a bit of a serious and weird matter but I haven't stopped laughing reading all the way through 4 pages :rotfl::rotfl: its very weird and I don't blame you for throwing out the towel etc... who on earth DOES that?? Traumatising :rotfl: I would HAVE to say something or I'd be forever wondering!!

*max*

I can just picture the scene when the guy came back after his...ablutions.

OP: Hi.
Bloke: Hi...
*heavy silence*

OP: Did you...did you just have a shower?
Bloke: *long pause* yes, yes I did.

*Awkward silence*

OP: Right. I'll see you at work tomorrow then, shall I?
Bloke: Sure. Thanks for the...coffee. And, you know. The shower.
OP: Right. Bye then.

Bloke gets out, with OP's eyes on his back the whole way, the door closes.

OP, now alone, still clutching her cup of long cold coffee: !!!!!! just happened???

tea_lover

I've had really good friends and family staying at my house and they've still asked before they use the shower. The more I think about this the weirder it gets - you just don't do this!

tea_lover

There's a world of difference between offering someone a drink out of politeness as they're doing you a favour, and getting your kit off uninvited. A world of difference.

Rambosmum

I'm another one to vote on the pervert thing. It is very weird. I ask before taking a shower in anyones house - my mum's my best friends, anyone's. Let alone a work colleague I barely know.

Weird weird weird. I'd disinfect the whole thing, and I'd be very wary about him afterwards and at least make a note of it in my work diary, in case something came of it later.

Bit freaked out now.

fierystormcloud

*max* wrote: »

I can just picture the scene when the guy came back after his...ablutions.

OP: Hi.
Bloke: Hi...
*heavy silence*

OP: Did you...did you just have a shower?
Bloke: *long pause* yes, yes I did.

*Awkward silence*

OP: Right. I'll see you at work tomorrow then, shall I?
Bloke: Sure. Thanks for the...coffee. And, you know. The shower.
OP: Right. Bye then.

Bloke gets out, with OP's eyes on his back the whole way, the door closes.

OP, now alone, still clutching her cup of long cold coffee: !!!!!! just happened???

:rotfl: Brilliant Max!!!

tea_lover wrote: »

I've had really good friends and family staying at my house and they've still asked before they use the shower. The more I think about this the weirder it gets - you just don't do this!

Exactly!

Rambosmum wrote: »

I'm another one to vote on the pervert thing. It is very weird. I ask before taking a shower in anyones house - my mum's my best friends, anyone's. Let alone a work colleague I barely know.

Weird weird weird. I'd disinfect the whole thing, and I'd be very wary about him afterwards and at least make a note of it in my work diary, in case something came of it later.

Bit freaked out now.

Me too! :eek: Glad it's not just me who thinks he may be a bit of a perv.

What utterly bizarre behaviour!

missbiggles1

j.e.j. wrote: »

Really? Maybe I'm a fusspot but I'd always use shower shoes or beach shoes when using public showers. Verrucas are mingin'!


ETA I always clean public loo seats with an anti-bac wipe before I park my botty on them too :rotfl:

That's really anal!;)

Bennifred

I so want to know what happens when you next see your colleague, OP! :rotfl:

fierystormcloud

j.e.j. wrote: »

Really? Maybe I'm a fusspot but I'd always use shower shoes or beach shoes when using public showers. Verrucas are mingin'!


ETA I always clean public loo seats with an anti-bac wipe before I park my botty on them too :rotfl:

missbiggles1 wrote: »

That's really anal!;)

:rotfl:

Sounds a bit OTT what jej does, but at the same time, I don't blame her!

Verrucas are vile, and VERY hard to get rid of!!!

fierystormcloud

Bennifred wrote: »

I so want to know what happens when you next see your colleague, OP! :rotfl:

Same here!

PLEASE keep us updated Yvonne!