What would you do?

undaunted

On the one hand this is the funniest thing I've seen all week (maybe longer actually) !

On the other I'd be concerned about his motives. certainly wouldn't let him in the house again if I were you

carefullycautious

Lily-Rose wrote: »

Why did he 'need help?' :huh:

It's not a ridiculous comment to suspect he is a bit pervy. He could have been doing ANYthing to the OP's stuff in that bathroom, and anything WITH her stuff.

The fact is that he didn't ask, and that was rude and inconsiderate and frankly, weird.

My mind would be in turmoil wondering why he had done it, and what he did when he was in there.

It's not bad or unreasonable to think it's a bit weird and pervy, for a strange man to strip NAKED in your bathroom and wipe himself down with your towels and use all your personal stuff, without asking.

All that said, I wouldn't say anything to him about it, but never ask him in again.

Well if he did not need help he needed a shower :rotfl:
I wonder how long the op has known him?

Primrose

Are you sure he doesn't have a colostomy bag or something and didn,t have a accident with it that he needed to clean up. Some people need to keep these things private and having to share personal informstion like this is intensely embarrassing ans humiliating.

Fluff15

I wonder if OP went into work today and asked?

wannabe_sybil

Did anyone mention the noise of a shower hiding the sound of fixing hidden cameras?

yvonne13_2

I saw my co-worker today and he could tell something was wrong. He asked if we could have a quick chat, but I said it was best if we do it tomorrow before work.

Hopefully after tomorrow's chat I can make sense of what happend.

Georgiegirl256

yvonne13 wrote: »

I saw my co-worker today and he could tell something was wrong. He asked if we could have a quick chat, but I said it was best if we do it tomorrow before work.

Hopefully after tomorrow's chat I can make sense of what happend.

Hopefully. Why didn't you just let him say his piece today?

chrissie57

Fluff15 wrote: »

If you weren't a regular poster, I'd have written this post off as a troll! I can't believe people actually behave like this!

How close are you to said co-worker? Personally, I'd want to have a word with him to find out what the hell he was thinking! I'd go along with the words "if I knew you'd needed a shower, I'd have put some clean towels out! Why did you use my shower without asking, bit weird isn't it? Do you do that in everybody's house?"

I have read this thread with increasing disbelief. I would call this person a long standing member rather than a regular poster and I am reasonably sure this, and certain of their other posts, are indeed trolling. The last post she made on this thread - ask yourself why she should want to wait to be given a reason for this frankly bizarre act. The only reason I can think of is to keep us all hanging on....:cool:

Georgiegirl256

chrissie57 wrote: »

I have read this thread with increasing disbelief. I would call this person a long standing member rather than a regular poster and I am reasonably sure this, and certain of their other posts, are indeed trolling. The last post she made on this thread - ask yourself why she should want to wait to be given a reason for this frankly bizarre act. The only reason I can think of is to keep us all hanging on....:cool:

I've got to admit, I'm moving to that way of thinking too. Reading her other threads, she sure does get into some unusual situations.... :think:

amistupid

Like others I'd I hope there's an innocent explanation for his behaviour but perhaps he's got the hots for you and taking a shower was an odd way of testing whether you felt the same. If this is the case I'd be very wary of him.