Nice People Thread No. 14, all Nice and Proper

GDB2222

vivatifosi wrote: »

To have as big an age difference as in Pastures's article, you'd have needed to marry a preschooler:eek:

Did Mrs GDB study with the OU?

She was at UCL, but as you surmised she was a mature student. Well, as mature as any student is.

Nikkster

I am getting ready to go out. To a club.
It's not even for a hen do - its to see a DJ.
First time in over 10 years :eek:

Its unlikely as my outfit is styled on 'dogs dinner', but I'll let you know if I find a toyboy. Or indeed a sugar daddy

I'd normally be thinking about going to bed to watch a film on TV around now!

vivatifosi

I'm watching Kanye from Glastonbury. Very clever set, but I want to shoot the person in the audience with a laser pointer.

Have fun Nikkster!

ukmaggie45

lostinrates wrote: »

I mean, age hasn't stopped fir being a carer for much of our relationship, for an example.

OH is my carer too, it's difficult thing to live with, as I'm sure you know. For both. Not what you "signed up" for in some ways. Though marriage says "in sickness and health" I don't think most people actually think about that... Then when/if it happens it can be disastrous for relationship. OH is very kind to me, but we do have arguments! :rotfl: Often over gardening! :rotfl: But he unfailingly brings me tea in bed in morning, cooks for me. And does so much more too.

Generali

There was a 17 y/o at my VIth form who was engaged to a 50 y/o. Her step daughter was in the year below her at school.

Nikkster

Back home. So much fun very sore feet. DJ was like a very long, very clever mix tape.

Could have had a toyboy or 5 Not sure what I did to deserve that but managed to resist. Good ego boost though

Edit: have raised the fridge. Chorizo and mozzarella on sourdough #middleclass

Jazee

PasturesNew wrote: »

I used to "collect offers". Wasn't overly interested in a sweaty groping by some young lad, but I did like to go home alone knowing I could have .... #StillGotIt

Same here, it's a bit of an ego boost although you do wonder what their true objective is. Do they think that just because you're older you must know all the tricks to teach them or that you are rich?!!

PasturesNew

Jazee wrote: »

Same here, it's a bit of an ego boost although you do wonder what their true objective is. Do they think that just because you're older you must know all the tricks to teach them or that you are rich?!!

Out on the town, with beer, it's the lads rule of "Any hole's a goal"

Nikkster

Jazee wrote: »

Same here, it's a bit of an ego boost although you do wonder what their true objective is. Do they think that just because you're older you must know all the tricks to teach them or that you are rich?!!

I dunno. I don't suppose they were thinking much at all!

Spirit_2

ukmaggie45 wrote: »

OH is my carer too, it's difficult thing to live with, as I'm sure you know. For both. Not what you "signed up" for in some ways. Though marriage says "in sickness and health" I don't think most people actually think about that... Then when/if it happens it can be disastrous for relationship. OH is very kind to me, but we do have arguments! :rotfl: Often over gardening! :rotfl: But he unfailingly brings me tea in bed in morning, cooks for me. And does so much more too.

my lovely husband has cared brilliantly for me over the last year and due to recent events it will continue a tad longer. We have got a good balance between carer, friend , lover and continue to be very much in love. His caring , and our Daughter's care bring home to me how much they love me.As for me I do less care but it is always sobering when you sign a consent form which includes death as a risk, and focuses the mind on what really matters, in my case my darling husband and daughter