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should i move back home?
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whats DDs? was hard living with mum but guess be good in the long run
JULY WINS- LABEL M PRODUCTS0 -
glamrochick wrote: »was hard living with mum but guess be good in the long run
It will probably be equally hard for her and you will be the one getting the most benefit in the long run.But a banker, engaged at enormous expense,Had the whole of their cash in his care.
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Darling Daughters...glamrochick wrote: »whats DDs? was hard living with mum but guess be good in the long runI’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the In My Home MoneySaving, Energy and Techie Stuff boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com.
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Have one DD who thinks like that and one who doesn't argue about it, even though she lives with her boyfriend of 7 years.
However, both observe our wishes. It's called respect.
Where does your respect of your daughter with a seven year relationship figure in that?
I'm speaking as the mother here, not the daughter.
. . .I did not speak out
Then they came for me
And there was no one left
To speak out for me..
Martin Niemoller0 -
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My DD came home.after being independent at uni, and hates every minute of it. She says it feels like a backward step.
And while we don't clip her wings in any shape or form, yet she feels stifled being here and hates living in just one room.
She was lucky and left uni with no debt, but is saving hard for a deposit so she can get her wish and be independent again.
I do keep reminding her it's temporary and won't last for ever and that to see the rainbow she need to experience the rain.0 -
Realistically you moving home might encourage your BF to get his own place sooner - and as you'll both be better off if you'll be paying less in keep than in rent and he won't be paying to travel to Leeds you can always splash out on the odd night in a travelodge or Premier Inn or even regular weekends away.I Would Rather Climb A Mountain Than Crawl Into A Hole
MSE Florida wedding .....no problem0 -
paulwellerfan wrote: »What do your parents want you to do.
they may not want you back.
Valid point. One of my kids keeps returning to the nest and quite frankly I'm getting sick to death of it. The hotel 'Mum & Dad' is an easy and cheap option and is far too often abused.In memory of Chris Hyde #8670 -
true point. me and bf could do more things together and see each other more.. thats the thing i see it as backward as movinghome as now got my own place in another city.. but i know deep down be good in long run.. im stubborn. not always good!
JULY WINS- LABEL M PRODUCTS0 -
Have one DD who thinks like that and one who doesn't argue about it, even though she lives with her boyfriend of 7 years.
However, both observe our wishes. It's called respect.
It's called prudishness. But you're quite entitled to take a "it's my way or the highway" stance. Just don't be surprised when they choose the latter 0
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