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  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,622 Forumite
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    edited 17 November 2015 at 7:17PM
    Mrs Upsidedown Bear, please can you give me some advice? I love my job (just not the admin) and I have had my career for 18 years. I did work in banking when I first graduated and hated it. Given the public sector cut backs and job and salary cuts would you advise me to leave?

    I can't drive. My health isn't good enough.

    I could get a job elsewhere but the same is happening everywhere in my sector. Plus I love my house and don't want to move. What would you advise me to do?

    Do you know what? I think I answered my own question. I will carry on.

    What would you do? Have you heard that the Holland Germany Match has been postponed as they found a package? Let's hope it's all a false alarm and everyone is safe.
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  • I'm not sure I'm the best person to advise as I don't know you in RL but my thoughts are.

    Are you on a permanent contract at work? If you are then I wouldn't advise leaving unless you have another job to go to.
    If you are made redundant then you will get redundancy pay - check your contract to see how much.
    It would be worth looking round to see what jobs are available, are there any you want to do/could do.
    Could you talk to someone who knows you in RL and see what they think? They'll know about your health and so on.
    Not sure that's much help :cool:

    ETA
    It's taken me so long to reply you have answered your own question so don't need me :rotfl::D
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,622 Forumite
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    Hi I am on a permanent contract. I will get redundancy pay.

    I do love my job. I will continue to work here as I enjoy what I teach which is popular and recognised by the government, love my students, enjoy working with nice colleagues, I am v close to where I work too which helps.

    I am just worried that our salaries have not risen for 5 years, and are due to fall in the near future together with the threat of job cuts is always there I suppose it's no different to anyone else. I will see what happens over the next few months.

    My friends all want me to leave because of the stress and long hours but only after I have found a job. I haven't started looking yet.

    It's so hard, I don't know if I can face doing anything else or if i'd be any good. I am risk averse. Can you think of any jobs that are secure? I don't want to retrain to be a doctor though some of my friends are and its such a difficult job. I spent 6 years at university already.
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  • I'm not sure there are any really secure jobs these days :(
    Doctors work very long hours and have plenty of stress so I don't think that would be a good job for you.
    Could you do the same job somewhere else? Would that be less stressful/less hours or just the same? Can't remember if you've said what job you do so that might not be helpful.
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,622 Forumite
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    edited 19 November 2015 at 5:40PM
    hi the same job is exactly the same amount of stress wherever I work in the UK and abroad too! lol.

    Despite that I have had a good but v busy day today. I have plenty of work to do today but I am taking tonight off and will wake up early and do it as brain is tired.

    I can't believe how fast this week has passed. OMG it is almost Christmas. My tree looks lovely. I keep looking at it. How sad am I?
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  • savingwannabe
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    Hurrah it's the weekend. I have plenty of work to do but it is so nice to do it at home with a cup of tea!

    I have had a great surprise in the mail. I took out Halifax Home Insurance and they have sent me a £50 cheque. Hurrah!!!

    The weather is expected to take a turn for the worse. We may have snow somewhere in the UK. Wow.
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  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,622 Forumite
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    I have done a couple of hours of work and I am having a rest. Haven't achieved as much as I wanted to so I might be working for a fair while for the rest of the weekend but in a chilled way with no pressure listening to classical music.

    It's cold. Blimey. We had a bit of snow today but it's all gone now and I have clothes drying outside in the wind. Belgium has been threatened by Daeesh (I am not going to call them by the name they are known by as I am sure they don't represent that religion at all). I hope they are caught soon and Europe can relax again.

    9 days till payday. It feels so far away.

    I have been invited to the work Christmas do but don't know if I can afford it. To be honest I don't know if I want to go either. It will cost at least £60 and probably more and I would rather use the money to pay for Christmas.

    Mrs Upsidedown Bear do you always go to Christmas do's?
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  • Hello :hello:

    It's very brrrrr here but no snow.
    No, I don't go to Christmas do's. I really don't enjoy them and they cost a lot :cool:
    Don't feel obliged to go :)
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,622 Forumite
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    I've been working all day. I wanted to watch my Kodi box but I've lost the remote control. lol.

    My house is really tidy and I can't find it anywhere. So funny. You know I was considered a genius when I was younger. lol.
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  • My OH says check the bin :cool:
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