This girl wants me to go see "fifty shades of grey" with her

misspickle_2

Very true j.e.
Its about abuse. Plain and simple.

fairy_lights

supermassive wrote: »

Let me tell you how this is going to play out. You'll go watch it with her in the cinema, and as you leave she'll have fantasies running around her head the whole way home. She won't be able to stop thinking about the touch of skin on skin, the tingle of a strong, masterful hand sliding up her smooth inner thigh. You know what happens then? You get laid. Alot.

Unless the film is as bad as early reviews suggest it is. In which case she might never want to have sex again.

ViolaLass

misspickle wrote: »

I think kingslayer has a good point! He's only known her for a few weeks!!!
Maybe he doesn't want to get that serious and intense within the first few dates!
Maybe he doesn't want her getting the impression that they are exclusive and that serious yet!
He's probably wondering what the hell he has signed up for :rotfl:

Going to see a film together means you're exclusive?

engineer_amy

im going to see it with a group of girls, more for the fact that the male lead is Jamie Dornan (local boy) rather than for the quality of the film.
But its safe to say, if I went to a film like that with a guy, I would be jumping on him on the way home. He would definitely be getting invited in for coffee....
the other posters are right about the difference between !!!!!! for men and erotic fantasy film for women, they are worlds apart.


Go and see it with her, you will probably get lucky

Stevie_Palimo

kingslayer wrote: »

I have never even read the book, but for some reason she seems adamant she wants me to go with her to view it. I have only known her for just over a couple weeks, so why would she want to go see such a film with me? I asked her but she said that it would be fun, although i don't think it would be for me.

I mean i'm all for watching !!!!!! with a girl, but i don't even like romantic comedies and this is far from one of those. The more i read about it, the more it just sounds like a middle aged, sexually repressed woman's ideal fantasy brought to the big screen.

We have been on dates, i've shown my intent (as not to be friend zoned!) but i don't see why she wouldn't go see it with her mum or friends, or female co-workers etc, not with a guy :eek

Are any of the women here going to see it with a male companion?

I would probably air on the side of caution if she suggested dogging but a film about some dominant pervert and a shy submissive type really is little to be worried about.


Maybe if she brings some sex toys to the film as well or try's to switch roles and suggests some bdsm then you may need to worry also as I read this post thinking you may be somewhat conservative in your thoughts of women Today.

terra_ferma

I think she's hoping that watching the movie might give you some idea to spice it up and stop her from falling asleep while you are at it

[Deleted User]

I have to say I just don't understand why this book is so popular.

I had to laugh.., my ex used to chat with one of the parents of a child at my younger son's school.., not my sort of person at all. He got the idea to buy the book from her apparently for a prezzie for me. I'm into sci fi, History, non fiction, not a book like that lol. Not a good b'day present ha ha. I also am not the sub sort in that sense.

I shant say the words 'ex' and 'why' together again lol

If the OP isn't comfortable with going to see the movie.., he just isn't. I wouldn't be either. To suggest he should go in the hopes of adding another knotch to his belt causes me to feel a lot of pity for the suggesters friends.

supermassive

deannatrois wrote: »

I have to say I just don't understand why this book is so popular.

I had to laugh.., my ex used to chat with one of the parents of a child at my younger son's school.., not my sort of person at all. He got the idea to buy the book from her apparently for a prezzie for me. I'm into sci fi, History, non fiction, not a book like that lol. Not a good b'day present ha ha. I also am not the sub sort in that sense.

I shant say the words 'ex' and 'why' together again lol

If the OP isn't comfortable with going to see the movie.., he just isn't. I wouldn't be either. To suggest he should go in the hopes of adding another knotch to his belt causes me to feel a lot of pity for the suggesters friends.

Surely you don't suggest that everyone should avoid things they suspect they may not like, simply because they may not like them? :rotfl: Nobody would leave their house in the morning!

thorsoak

Actually - because it's Kingslayer ....it's wishful thinking, methinks - along with the other question he was asking on the other board about hair transplants :-D

foxtrotoscar_2

Is this a real (flesh and blood) woman?