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This girl wants me to go see "fifty shades of grey" with her

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  • Pollycat
    Pollycat Posts: 35,806 Forumite
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    kingslayer wrote: »

    I am all for being dominant in the bedroom and as a man, it's our duty to be dominant, but some of the stuff i've read is going to extremes and i would be surprised if any woman enjoys that stuff, or if they do, they must be a bit anomalous in the head.

    I could not have a woman be the dominant one (unless she wanted to try it out, which is quite rare) as it make me feel un-masculine.

    Oh My Lord!
    I just wonder what sort of upbringing this guy had. smiley-confused013.gif
  • elsien
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    I still think there's a fair possibility he's posting as a wind up, but it's amusing, so I'll go with it.
    All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.

    Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.
  • ViolaLass
    ViolaLass Posts: 5,764 Forumite
    Kingslayer, bear in mind that there is a world of difference between wanting to see the film and wanting to do these things in real life.
  • 74jax
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    Ok I'm back in .

    KS. Has she said anything to give you the impression she wants you to see the film to get ideas? That seems to be what you think and I'm just wondering why.

    I love going to the cinema, but not to become a James bond assassin, or to get ideas for painting myself blue.

    I suggest films by what I fancy seeing.

    I'm guessing the day after you'll either post you backed out at thelast minute or saw it, had sex, now can't see her again because you think you only had sex due to get liking the film and being kinky .
    Forty and fabulous, well that's what my cards say....
  • purpleshoes_2
    purpleshoes_2 Posts: 2,653 Forumite
    edited 10 February 2015 at 10:30AM
    Is this just another thread where the op posts his ridiculous views on women?

    Its a book/film. Its not real.

    Now we get the view that its ok for men to be dominant but if a woman enjoys this kind of stuff theres something wrong with her head.

    What business of yours is it what other people do in bed?
  • misspickle wrote: »
    I do apologise if YOU have taken offence though. I forget how sensitive some people are.
    Please accept my sincere apologises. I will make sure I never refer to you again.

    I didnt take offence as it happens, there was a smiley in my post.

    But if you dont refer to me again, np

    You can matchmake the op with someone else

    Good luck :)
  • "Its your duty to be dominant" :rotfl:
    Oh king you will get some stick for that ha ha!

    Nothing wrong with a bit of role reversal. Mix it up a bit! Don't knock it til you've tried it. You might enjoy yourself ;)

    So what are you getting her for valentines day? Are you pushing the boat out?
    Get her a bit of jewellery. Nothing says exclusive like jewellery does :D

    If she's "the one" you won't be having sex yet anyway! Being the gentleman that you are
    and all that :o
  • Can I have him then purple lol I'm kidding!

    I love being single. 9 years now.
    I saw you on the single thread. It was a good post. I agree :)
  • 74jax wrote: »
    Ok I'm back in .

    KS. Has she said anything to give you the impression she wants you to see the film to get ideas? That seems to be what you think and I'm just wondering why.

    I love going to the cinema, but not to become a James bond assassin, or to get ideas for painting myself blue.

    I suggest films by what I fancy seeing.

    I'm guessing the day after you'll either post you backed out at thelast minute or saw it, had sex, now can't see her again because you think you only had sex due to get liking the film and being kinky .

    I dont believe that 27 year old men would spend their time posting about being desperate for a gf and then get one and go into a tailspin about going to see fifty shades.

    Even with the drama filled back collection of jackanory tales. Its just time for some attention, here we go again.
  • I haven't read kings history of posts yet. I've refrained. I didn't want to taint my view of such a charmer. But after what posters have said I'm going to have too. Curiosity has got the better of me!

    This is fun. God I really need to get a life :o

    Its good I have work later. These forums are addictive.
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