We all need to be heard for a little while.

System

tea_lover wrote: »

AAAARRRRRRGGGGGGGHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!! that is all.

What's up tea lover? *hands you a cuppa tea *

tea_lover

Tea and punchbag both good ideas, thanks

OH seriously doing my head in about the finances. Which I realise is just further proof that this is for the best, but am so not in the mood.

Am now sulking in the bedroom and crying all over Percy cat.

seven-day-weekend

I have (I think) a heart-shaped face and high cheekbones, I am quite pleased with my face, when I was young I looked a bit like Jane Birkin (except I have yellowy-brown eyes):

http://www.google.co.uk/imgres?imgurl=http://www.morrisonhair.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/JaneBirkin.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.morrisonhair.com/hair-icon-jane-birkin/jane-birkin/&h=224&w=225&tbnid=tkZT3y6ej6RFoM:&zoom=1&tbnh=186&tbnw=186&usg=__XApux9knZCdIlJEOPJV-fsZFSpE=&docid=V4eevrMsEHVrYM&itg=1

When I got a bit older and put on weight I looked a bit like Judith Durham:

https://www.google.co.uk/url?sa=i&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=images&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0CAcQjRw&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.judithdurham.org.uk%2F7349%2F&ei=tXDaVPf4OpTsaIKwgYAJ&bvm=bv.85464276,d.d2s&psig=AFQjCNElFH0Gieu07_vQGO2V5UDpzGXgcQ&ust=1423688234006604

My avatar is my photo, I don't know who I look like now!

elsien

tea_lover wrote: »

Tea and punchbag both good ideas, thanks

OH seriously doing my head in about the finances. Which I realise is just further proof that this is for the best, but am so not in the mood.

Am now sulking in the bedroom and crying all over Percy cat.

Ouch. Completely the wrong time of night for that sort of conversation. Sorry that you're having to go through it - doesn't he get that you need a bit of time to get your head round it all?

tea_lover

He really doesn't. Which I guess makes sense - he checked out of this relationship mentally/emotionally at least 18 months ago. I've only just realised that this really is going to happen...he's got a head start on me

tea_lover

But as ever, its now up to me to sort everything out. He's the one that isn't prepared to put any effort into sorting things, he's the one that's said he doesn't love me anymore....but somehow it's now my responsibility to make sure he can afford somewhere to live.

elsien

Well he'll just have to flipping well wait a bit then, won't he.
And he's a grown man - if he wants things to happen he should start taking responsibility for it himself.
Try not to let yourself get pushed into things before you're ready, hard though it is when you're stuck in the middle of it all. Do you have someone outside of the situation in real life that you can run ideas past? (Other than a slightly soggy Percy.)

tea_lover

He will have to flipping well wait...muppet. Grr!

I do have some RL people I can talk to/whinge at...thankfully. Plus cat therapy

On a brighter note, am going to the theatre tomorrow night via meetup. Really looking forward to it.

onomatopoeia99

xXMessedUpXx wrote: »

Well its come out more blue than turquoise but i quite like it

It looks really good!

elsien

What are you going to see? I'm also being cultured and going to the ballet.