Official Trying to Conceive - Thread 12

ThinkPink

Hi ladies. Keeping my fingers crossed for a few more bfp before the end of June.

I had decided that I was going to track this month and use concieve plus but I'm thinking one more cycle of ntnp may be the best thing for a number of reasons, but then I don't want to feel like I've wasted a cycle- decisions decisions!!

Roz_V

Big hugs to Lulu & BR :grouphug: xx

Mortgage_Reduction_Novice

Lulu, my friend kept saying he's ask his lady when she stopped bleeting on about it so it was more of a surprise ( I have my suspicions that he wanted it to feel more like his idea too!). Sure enough when she resigned herself to just enjoying their relationship as it was, he asked her. Anyway you are trying for a baby together, that's a much bigger commitment than some paperwork that can be revoked.

I got a negative OPK yesterday... after 3 or 4 positives in a row. OH has to work this weekend so I'll be enjoying some hobby time at home. App says 11 days till AF due - I think that's based on an average CD but my last was 1 week late so has skewed the average by a day.

ncsmummy

Fingers crossed for some bfps before the end on the month!!! Also hugs to all those who need them!

CD25 here, think I am about 6 dpo tho I struggled with the ops this month! Ruling us out as bding was much lacking this month for various reasons! Feel so annoyed everytime we 'waste' a month! Start of full of good intentions and then it all goes wrong!!

aileth

Big hugs to everyone. Seems like morale is at a very low ebb in here atm, so hope we get some BFPs soon.

I'm not overly convinced this month, but I'm going to test on Sunday (when Ovia says to) anyway. If I'm not expecting anything then the only surprise would be a good surprise is my thinking.

MancMama4

Morning All, CD23 8DPO checking in (I know I said that yesterday but I lost a day for some reason... wishing the days away! AF due 2nd July according to Glow).

Went to visit a friend's newborn last night (5 weeks old). I'd been putting it off tbh, but glad I made the effort, it was difficult but if anything its just made me more determined to stay positive - they tried for 2 years.

Sending good vibes for BFPs for all and to those feeling low big hugs.

lulu_92

I don't really go on about it though, he knows I think it'd be nice and that I don't expect it to happen. I tend to bring up the whole "you've agreed to have a baby with me so why can't you commit to me?"
I had this conversation the other day and I said that my OH waited until he was ready to be a dad, obviously he decided that he wanted to have children with me but he didn't decide as a sign of his commitment to me. If he wants to bring a baby into the world with me what's the harm in proposing? He's tying himself to me for life anyway!

HighlandLass

I'm sorry I haven't been more active on the thread, thing have been a bit hectic here lately. We have just moved from a 3 bed semi-detached to a 2 bed flat!:eek: so there was a bit of downsizing required lol

My OH never officially asked me, we were walking past a jewllers and he said 'we could go in and get you a ring if you want?' - we had been together 3 years but we were very young, 18 & 19 when we met.

There hasn't been much luck on the TTC front my cycles seem to be all over the place. My app is telling me that the average cycle is 31 days with OV on CD17. Not sure how accurate that is though as we have been BDing as much as possible for the whole week that it tells me I am fertile but when I get my period and look back the app has magically changed when I was fertile and mucks everything up :mad:

Anyhoo onward and upwards it will happen eventually and I need to try and be a bit more relaxed about the whole thing.

Currently CD26 DPO9 - I am not too hopeful for this month as OH was ill (man flu) and according to the app we only had 1 DB in the right window so.

sorry for such a long post.

S xx

LittleMoog

Afternoon all
Hope everyone's ok, warm weather heading for us next week, I feel in need of a bit of sunshine. Been stuck in the office all week and working in the evenings too We're off on holiday on Monday though, so roll on hometime today, no work for a week

I think I'm 5dpo today, so need to remember to pack tests and mooncup, as we're off to a family party next weekend which is likely to be a boozy affair so will need to confirm one way or the other! Hopefully I'll be taking "antibiotics" and not able to drink , or at least I'll be able to drown my sorrows.

Might not be on much while we're away as MSE is a pain on my phone, so hugs for everyone, sticky dust and good luck vibes all around

ncsmummy

Looking for a bit of experience if possible please, had a hospital appointment today and I am being referred for a laparoscopy to investing some pains I have been having as an ultrasound didnt pick anything up. I am quite anxious (suffer from anxiety anyway) about it but trying to view it positively as they are going to be taking a good look at my ovaries, tubes etc so will know how its looking in there! Whats it like? Painful?? I am such a wimp lol