How long should child maintainence be paid?

Marisco

FBaby wrote: »

But they are because they are best weapons to hurt back when you've been hurt in the first place:(

I do feel very sorry for those parents who have to deal with a total change to their lives as a result of an affair. Whether it is the pwc who is given no choice but to see less of her children at week-ends because the father decided to play happy family with another woman. That hurts massively. Or the father who is being kicked out of his house and is told he can only sees his children when it suits whilst being dried financially.
It is hard when you are constantly pushed to the limit.

Believe me, I know the hurt an affair causes. However, kids should never be brought into anything regardless of who is to "blame". Even though my kids were older when my ex legged it with another woman, never once did I "bad mouth" him to them, and wouldn't let the kids do it about him in my hearing either.

victory

Marisco wrote: »

Believe me, I know the hurt an affair causes. However, kids should never be brought into anything regardless of who is to "blame". Even though my kids were older when my ex legged it with another woman, never once did I "bad mouth" him to them, and wouldn't let the kids do it about him in my hearing either.

Strange must have you mixed up but thought you were a young mum your 2 boys were young ones,(did you not take them to the seaside and your car got hit parked?) that you are a teacher and were single bringing up your 2 young sons?:)

Ames

victory wrote: »

Strange must have you mixed up but thought you were a young mum your 2 boys were young ones,(did you not take them to the seaside and your car got hit parked?) that you are a teacher and were single bringing up your 2 young sons?:)

That's marisco not Marisco.

Marisco

victory wrote: »

Strange must have you mixed up but thought you were a young mum your 2 boys were young ones,(did you not take them to the seaside and your car got hit parked?) that you are a teacher and were single bringing up your 2 young sons?:)

Deffo mixed me up!! :eek: I'm happily retired with 2 adult kids, 5 grandkids and one great grand child. There is another lass called marisco (small M) on here, maybe that's her?

victory

Marisco wrote: »

Deffo mixed me up!! :eek: I'm happily retired with 2 adult kids, 5 grandkids and one great grand child. There is another lass called marisco (small M) on here, maybe that's her?

I never knew that, 2 usernames one big M one small m, in all the years I have been on here, never once realised:o didn't think 2 people could have the same username all bar a capital, must take more notice in future:D