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  • Hi BB,

    So sorry to hear about your Mum. I really hope you get some good news when the results come through. Be kind to yourself and don't feel too bad if you are spending a bit more than expected. You are going through a rough time. Take care xxx
    Total (Aug 19):€58,567 Now:€26,947
    DFD:Nov 22/June 22
    Mortgage: €199,712
    MFD: March 2042/July 2034
  • Baldybear
    Baldybear Posts: 1,719 Forumite
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    So 1am and sitting in the hospital car park charging my phone is not how i expected to spend my monday night. Mums not great at all who knows how long we have with her and for now she just wants us there as scared she will go when shes not there so doing all we can. Sister and i both here. Dad came up earlier and also mums vicar which she really appreciated. May know more tomorrow but for now we just wait.
    Debt 13-1-25 - £39K!!!
    Mortgage 13-1-25 - £63K

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  • Thinking of you BB at this paiful time, look after yourself and keep strong.

    With love and best wishes, C x
    Loan from Mum £500/£300
    DH computer £270.06/PAID :T
    Kids computer £854.33/46.18 :eek:
    Bike £276.15/118.35
    Overdraft £1192/0 :eek:
    Car £5374.04/316.12 :eek:
  • Baldybear
    Baldybear Posts: 1,719 Forumite
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    edited 3 November 2015 at 9:14AM
    Thanks for dropping by. Mum had a good night and a bit brighter this am and I managed to grab a few hours sleep. Big consultant meeting today but know its not treatable but hopefully can sort a plan maybe coming home or something just hopefully know a bit later still a waiting game but for now feel ok.
    Debt 13-1-25 - £39K!!!
    Mortgage 13-1-25 - £63K

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  • clearmydebts
    clearmydebts Posts: 6,485 Forumite
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    Hope the meeting goes as well as it can today. Thinking of you all.
    Total (Aug 19):€58,567 Now:€26,947
    DFD:Nov 22/June 22
    Mortgage: €199,712
    MFD: March 2042/July 2034
  • LAM2011
    LAM2011 Posts: 1,432 Forumite
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    hi BB
    Sorry not been on for ages. Sorry to hear your mum is not well. Thinking of you x
  • clearmydebts
    clearmydebts Posts: 6,485 Forumite
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    Hope the meeting went okay BB x
    Total (Aug 19):€58,567 Now:€26,947
    DFD:Nov 22/June 22
    Mortgage: €199,712
    MFD: March 2042/July 2034
  • Baldybear
    Baldybear Posts: 1,719 Forumite
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    Thank you both for dropping by. They have moved mum to hospice today she is settled and its lovely and peaceful. They are treating her to keep her comfortbale she is just very tired. They cant cure her as is so advanced but if she is comfy thats good as sometimes i assume its hard to go through things that may nake you feel awful so at least she hasnt had that. She isnt in any pain but just rests and that is all i can ask for really.

    Not sure about money as thats what this is meant to be about havent checked bank for few daya maybe try tomorrow. Know spent about £50 on parking but at least now can park for free.
    Debt 13-1-25 - £39K!!!
    Mortgage 13-1-25 - £63K

    Mt DFW Diary: https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6580353/at-an-all-time-low#latest
  • clearmydebts
    clearmydebts Posts: 6,485 Forumite
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    Baldybear wrote: »
    Thank you both for dropping by. They have moved mum to hospice today she is settled and its lovely and peaceful. They are treating her to keep her comfortbale she is just very tired. They cant cure her as is so advanced but if she is comfy thats good as sometimes i assume its hard to go through things that may nake you feel awful so at least she hasnt had that. She isnt in any pain but just rests and that is all i can ask for really.

    Not sure about money as thats what this is meant to be about havent checked bank for few daya maybe try tomorrow. Know spent about £50 on parking but at least now can park for free.



    I'm so sorry to hear that BB but am glad the hospice is nice and peaceful. Don't be worrying about chatting about money on here. Offload as much as you want to.


    Thinking of you x
    Total (Aug 19):€58,567 Now:€26,947
    DFD:Nov 22/June 22
    Mortgage: €199,712
    MFD: March 2042/July 2034
  • mfmaybe
    mfmaybe Posts: 1,176 Forumite
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    BB so sorry the news isn't good. :( Sending you all much love and support.
    0% card was £1126.91 / Now £1502.37

    AFD March 2/15 NSD March 2/11 :T

    Other debts paid since 1/1/14: £17,005
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