Is it normal for parents to want their kids to move out?

comeandgo

I love seeing my children again, in fact youngest is coming to stay with her boy friend next weekend, but they will leave a few days later. OP, what do your friends think of your ideas on staying with your parents as long as you can. Do they still live with their parents?

System

Mojisola wrote: »

No, no-one has said that.

they are saying that parents should throw their children out when they become an adult

Mojisola

berbastrike wrote: »

So what you are saying that adults don't want to see their children after they turn into an adult? This is what I don't get, no love

berbastrike wrote: »

they are saying that parents should throw their children out when they become an adult

No, we are saying that parents should help their grown-up children to complete the transition to adulthood by becoming independent.

No-one has said that parents don't want to see their children ever again.

gocurlygirl

after uni dd returned home.trying to get job,wants independence-still at home.love having her here but know she would love her own place.
It does seem so much harder now(I left home at 17).

oystercatcher

I guess when OP buys his own place he'll be quite happy for his parents to move in and pay him £30 a month each to live there then , after all they won't cost him more than that ....will they ?

System

oystercatcher wrote: »

I guess when OP buys his own place he'll be quite happy for his parents to move in and pay him £30 a month each to live there then , after all they won't cost him more than that ....will they ?

Yes if they need, plus they would need to pay the 25% discount I would lose on council tax

ska_lover

OMG is this lame thread still going!!?

Bebrastrike, you need to grow up, your parents/the world doesn't owe you a living

End of.

Littleweedj

What I would like to know is why you are all taking the time and effort to reply to this poster.

It's a very obvious wind-up, and he is simply having a laugh at your expense with all these ludicrous and obviously made up remarks.

Save your comments and helpful advice for those who really need it and not this pseudo Billy Liar !!!

dippy3103

berbastrike wrote: »

Women are the gold diggers, not me, a man

One can only assume that you are a troll

ohreally

berbastrike wrote: »

I have overheard a conversation between parents wanting me out

Then take the hint.