Apparently I'm married - GF not happy!!!

TrickyWicky

Gang!

I had a little accident the other day.. certain officials had to fill in some paperwork relating to me and put down my GF as my wife - clearly stating "Wife" then her first name followed by my last name.

Initially this wasn't a problem - we both laughed - as you do.

Since then over the last few days things keep being said like "you better ask your wife", "go tell your wife" etc etc. Initially all in jest and we had a laugh.. me saying things like "I'm happy having you as my bit on the side" and various other idiotic things.

Today we were talking about our sex life and I suggested something (as you do like - nothing we've not done before) and i got an almost snotty reply about going to my wife for it and asking her instead :eek:

Me being me, I said something stupid about how we were engaged and she got the mild hump about that too even saying something about me marrying her being illegal - !!!!!!?!?!?!?!

Oh and then no sex happened :mad:

Should I be worried?

puppypants

Tsk, men!! xx

FBaby

She still doesn't believe you will marry her. Being engaged doesn't mean you will do. Have you started to make official plans? Maybe you might want to do some internet research on various venues today and show her your hard work with some enthuasiasm about it when she's home, and maybe you might be luckier tonight

Seanymph

Fbaby is on the button as usual...

She wants to be your wife, she isn't.

Hug her, tell her you liked seeing it and perhaps you should get on with getting on with it.

When she says 'ask your wife' point out she is the only one you ever want to be able to call that, and the sooner the better.

You will have to put some heat on this ice to melt it.

Kayalana99

Seanymph wrote: »

Fbaby is on the button as usual...

She wants to be your wife, she isn't.

OR it was just that disgusting she said no...but said go ask your wife as you guys have been chucking jokes back and forward about it.

I think both are feasible.

System

Actions speak louder than words. You've given her the title but not the privilege.

All you've done is remind her that your not married.

As for trying something new in the bedroom... well she obviously didn't like the idea. Some people are more open to new ideas than others.

Seanymph

It wasn't something 'new' - it was something they'd done before!

(I guess she may have not liked it the first time).....

I think she wants the ring on.

martinthebandit

So she is 'withholding privileges' to force you into marriage?


Hmmmm, get a new girlfriend time

System

martinthebandit wrote: »

So she is 'withholding privileges' to force you into marriage?

No I think she was just peed off with him and what he suggested.:D

consultant31

Or maybe he doesn't actually want to marry her as a previous post on another thread suggests:-

[QUOTE=TrickyWicky;65798814[Yes_it_does_annoy_me_and_yes_it_is_frustrating_but_what_can_I_do?_I_love_the_woman_and_frankly_given_that_I'm_in_a_massive_fix,_I'd_rather_keep_her_than_end_up_in_a_bigger_hole!I_must_'fess_up_though_that_I_have_had_doubts_about_whether_we're_actually_right_for_each_other_though_due_to_this_and_other_things._She's_a_great_girl_but_it's_her_way_or_nothing_and_thats_hard_to_live_with.]

DKLS

Look out of the window OP, do you see those hills?

RUN !!!!!!!