I've got myself in a right state to the point I can't reason with myself - help!

cakeforbrains

Morglin wrote: »

Why make a drama out of things?

All that needs to happen now, us that a condom is used in future (I don't think men worry, after a sex session, what they are splashing about where!).

Or, perhaps being a 'youth of the 60's' , I just take a more laid back view of 'casual sex'!

Lin

I really hope that my sons will when they grow up.

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cakeforbrains wrote: »

Of course you should raise it with him - it's his sperm! He can't just go splashing it around and not expect at least a conversation.

You don't have to go in saying 'woah, I thought I was pregnant' (because you won't have been) but actually he's had a pretty lucky escape with that given that he didn't actually know if you were on the pill.

You should at least raise it in relation to STIs, though.

Sorry I wasn't clear, I meant I was coming round to the idea of not mentioning getting the MAP/pregnancy fear (and to address a previous comment on
the thread the pharmacist recommended it on the basis the pill isnt 100% and probably half to make me feel a bit more in control.)

Definitely having the contraceptio/std talk though.

warehouse

[quote=[Deleted User];discussion/4991598]Nevertheless I got myself in a right state Monday morning after I got on the train and ended up in tears in the pharmacist's office at lunchtime.

I'm terrified that he's going to think I'm a drama queen.[/QUOTE]

Well OP, with respect, so far that's the impression you're giving.

Look, the 2 of you got carried away in the moment, it happened, you just need to have a chat to make sure it doesn't happen without protection again. That's it.

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Sorry! :A

[Deleted User]

Thank you for the last few comments being blunt.

I think thats what I needed from someone, I know I've blown things out of proportion on my head and tying myself up in knots over it.

I feel incredibly stupid and a hard lesson learned.

Morglin

cakeforbrains wrote: »

I really hope that my sons will when they grow up.

I wouldn't bank on it - male hormones are funny old things, especially for younger men!:

Lin

Morglin

[quote=[Deleted User];65750163]Thank you for the last few comments being blunt.

I think thats what I needed from someone, I know I've blown things out of proportion on my head and tying myself up in knots over it.

I feel incredibly stupid and a hard lesson learned.[/QUOTE]


I wasn't trying to be harsh (really!), it's just after two husbands, 3 sons/stepsons, and 4 teenage male grandsons, I just sort of see how the male brain works!:eek:

Men take 'casual' sex much less seriously than women, and if you want your relationship to continue, probably best to just learn from it.

Lin

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Sorey I wasn't implying you were being harsh and I appreciate you being forthright.

Brighton_belle

warehouse wrote: »

Look, the 2 of you got carried away in the moment, it happened, you just need to have a chat to make sure it doesn't happen without protection again. That's it.

But they didn't really did they - they went to bed after brushing their teeth and getting in to pj's - there was no wild passion for sometime after they had made the decision to physically go to bed together.

Morglin

[quote=[Deleted User];65750242]Sorey I wasn't implying you were being harsh and I appreciate you being forthright.[/QUOTE]


Oh, well, gawd, we all act hastily in the heat of the sexual moment - just make sure, in future, that you use a condom.

Lin