Just needed to be heard for a little while

Pyxis

elsien wrote: »

MU maybe try cut him a bit of slack for Christmas and New Year? It tends to be a time when the thoughtless/useless at keeping in touch quickly amongst us let things slide a bit. It's not necessarily personal, just other things get in the way sometimes. I'm a bit like it myself, as friends would testify.

And maybe he's not well himself.....didn't you say he'd not been well?

System

Pyxis wrote: »

And maybe he's not well himself.....didn't you say he'd not been well?

Possibly, he had been distant over xmas.

Meh. I think its cos ts my day off have far too much time to think. I'm just going to throw myself into work and try not to make such a big deal over it. He'll (hopefully) talk to me when's he's ready..

Pyxis

Yep. I think we all know how Christmas can bring out the best and the worst in people; family crap, coupled with the short days and end-of-the-month debts, can cloud a lot of judgements.

Get well, let the New Year come and go, let the days start lengthening again, and your strength reserves will start to fill again. Then you'll see things how they really are. :A

System

Pyxis wrote: »

Yep. I think we all know how Christmas can bring out the best and the worst in people; family crap, coupled with the short days and end-of-the-month debts, can cloud a lot of judgements.

Get well, let the New Year come and go, let the days start lengthening again, and your strength reserves will start to fill again. Then you'll see things how they really are. :A

Thank you

I hope the new year will bring better things

Lol, we have a gig to go to on the 16th of january so i don't think he's going to want to miss out on that

This year has been a weird one, started it in one relationship and ending it in another! Amazing what difference a year makes so who knows what 2015 will being!

Pyxis

That's ma girl! :T

elsien

I often have a slump this time of year - going out in the dark and coming home in the dark really don't do me any favours. I struggle to get out of bed in the morning for most of Jan and Feb then things start to get better again. Hence heading off to foreign climes in Feb if possible, which it won't be this year unfortunately.

Plenty of time for conversations with Beau about being there for each other when you're feeling a bit stronger.

mellymoo74

Just managed *drum roll please*
3 onion rings 6 fries and a pulled pork patty.

elsien

mellymoo74 wrote: »

Just managed *drum roll please*
3 onion rings 6 fries and a pulled pork patty.

:T

(What is pulled pork btw? Keep seeing it mentioned but no idea what it actually involves.)

mellymoo74

elsien wrote: »

:T

(What is pulled pork btw? Keep seeing it mentioned but no idea what it actually involves.)

Slow cooked pork shoulder shredded in a bbq source.

jobbingmusician

Pulled meat is when you pull it, so it comes to bits in strands, rather than just cutting it, I think. (Lovely texture - I do like it that way.)

I say, well done mellymoo - that's brilliant!