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  • Pyxis
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    Sending hugs and warm handshakes to anyone that would like them (i'm a very huggy person and love to give cuddles!)

    Me, please! Me, me, please, me please! :j

    I'm suffering from hug starvation! Need my hug reserves building up!:):):)
    (I just lurve spiders!)
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  • whitewing
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    ((((((((((((((((((((pyxis))))))))))))))))))

    I have no idea if this is a symmetrical hug.
    :heartsmil When you find people who not only tolerate your quirks but celebrate them with glad cries of "Me too!" be sure to cherish them. Because these weirdos are your true family.
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    Pyxis wrote: »
    Me, please! Me, me, please, me please! :j

    I'm suffering from hug starvation! Need my hug reserves building up!:):):)
    *gives Pyxis lots of hugs* :D
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  • lostinrates
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    Pyxis wrote: »
    Me, please! Me, me, please, me please! :j

    I'm suffering from hug starvation! Need my hug reserves building up!:):):)

    Have some more from me then.


    I'm not sure whether I am very tactile or not.

    I'd default to yes, I kiss people and Hug etc, but I don't particularly like people I don't like/ haven't been introduced to touching me. E.g. With curly hair you often find people feel they can reach out and ping a curl and say ' lovely hair'. I would never reach forward and pat someone's back side and expect it to be ok because I said, ' lovely bottom!' Or any other part of them. :D. That kind of thing malpkes me wonder if I am more uptight than relaxed about being tactile. Because a truley tactile person might not mind. My friends and I can be quite touchy feely though, and touching has been important and hadn't felt weird in lots of hobbies and disciplines I've had.


    Anyway, Pyxis, you are a chum, and in glad ly hug you!
  • whitewing
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    Could you do something with her before you go away - take her to a show or the cinema/meal or something. I like to spread my birthday out over a few days.


    Whoops - wrong thread!
    :heartsmil When you find people who not only tolerate your quirks but celebrate them with glad cries of "Me too!" be sure to cherish them. Because these weirdos are your true family.
  • Pyxis
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    whitewing wrote: »
    ((((((((((((((((((((pyxis))))))))))))))))))

    I have no idea if this is a symmetrical hug.
    Symmetrical, schmetrical, a hug's a hug! :):):)
    *gives Pyxis lots of hugs* :D
    Thanks! :):):)
    Have some more from me then.
    Anyway, Pyxis, you are a chum, and in glad ly hug you!
    Aw shucks, LIR! Thank you! :):):)

    Three lots of hugs in a row! My hug cup is filling up! :):):)
    (I just lurve spiders!)
    INFJ(Turbulent).

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  • lostinrates
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    edited 5 October 2014 at 8:17PM
    Kiwi would give you hugs too, but he spent a lot of today on the muck heap.......might not appeal......;). Dog dog is a sometimes hugger, she likes her back scratches and if you do it just right you'll probably go on her hug list, but it am afraid she is terribly bigoted and its nothing to do with her upbringing :( I'm most upset with her iliberalism, :( Big dog is a FaNTASTIC hugger. The best. But because she's got a dodgy tooth her breath is awful. I don't, and vet doesn't want to yank it out because we don't think she'll benefit fro. The intervention. :(.


    Smelly dog hugs though, the best from big dog....and she is always pleased to offer them. Also, if you can cope with about 70 od kg of dog on your lap, she's your girl.
  • Pyxis
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    edited 5 October 2014 at 8:24PM
    LIR, your tactile comments reminded me of when I was very pregnant, and people, particularly men, were always patting my tummy!

    Mind you, it didn't particularly seem strange! I suppose we all felt it was the baby they were patting, not me!

    If they'd done that when I wasn't pregnant, they'd have copped a fist of fives! :D


    Kiwi, I shall desist for the moment, Eau-de-muck not being conducive to enjoying hugs! but when you've had a bath....... I love doggy hugs! I miss my doggy hugs!

    Dog dog, I'll swop you a hug for a back scratch, deal?

    Big dog, come 'ere then!! It's ok, I've got a clothes peg on my nose! :D
    (I just lurve spiders!)
    INFJ(Turbulent).

    Her Greenliness Baroness Pyxis of the Alphabetty, Pinnacle of Peadom and Official Brainbox
    Founder Member: 'WIMPS ANONYMOUS' and 'VICTIMS of the RANDOM HEDGEHOG'
    I'm in a clique! It's a clique of one! It's a unique clique!
    I love :eek:



  • lostinrates
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    Pyxis wrote: »
    LIR, your tactile comments reminded me of when I was very pregnant, and people, particularly men, were always patting my tummy!
    !

    That's exactly what I normally compare it too. :)
  • haybel19
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    Doggy cuddles are the best. Max does super cuddles- he absolutely loves to cuddle it is probably his favourite thing- he proper nestles in and snuggles as tight as he can. Bless his heart.

    I have a rotten cold. Hoping little miss does not catch it. It is her birthday on the 13th and her party is Sunday at a local soft play centre. I making her a cake but cannot decide- between quite a few ideas so she may well end up with two cakes... one for the party and one for her actual birthday lol.

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