Annoyed, Senior Manager asked me out for a drink

Any

Annoyed??
Hola girl, take it as a compliment..
Oh and people-remember, hook up and get married before you get any sort of promotion..
Apparently once you are a manager (NOT line manager or being reported to on ANY line - yes I have also read the whole thread) you are screwed and you ought to be single for ever..
Because asking someone for a drink might cause getting your head chopped off
(Humour, just pre emptying here)

Georgiegirl256

PenguinOfDeath wrote: »

Yes, so it's up to the OP to reject the invitation, it doesn't mean someone can't extend an invite

Yes, it is up to the OP to reject the invitation. But someone who is in a relationship is (to me anyhow) out of bounds, you just don't do it.

Any

Georgiegirl256 wrote: »

Yes, it is up to the OP to reject the invitation. But someone who is in a relationship is (to me anyhow) out of bounds, you just don't do it.

But I think that is issue on moral level, not necessarily working level.
The guy is a twonk, but that does not mean he needs to be reported to HR.
All though under the exact instruction ,do NOT use my personal number' OP could ask HR to have a word..not that I would, but if anywhere there would be a ,reason' for annoyance.

relay

maybe he just thought she looked a bit easy? :beer:

piglet25

I bet the chap is dreading coming into work on Wednesday too and is wondering if the rest of the staff have been having a laugh at his expense -only hope he doesn't read this thread :O

Georgiegirl256

Any wrote: »

The guy is a twonk, but that does not mean he needs to be reported to HR.

I totally agree. I don't know if you've read the rest of the thread, but if you have you'll see that I've said the same thing. Reporting to HR at this stage would be a major over-reaction.

duchy

The whole thread is about over reaction

Bangton

tomtontom wrote: »

Am I the only person that has drinks with people (male and female) as friends? I can't see anything that suggests there was a sexual or non platonic motive.

(And fivetide, before you get your knickers in a twist, I have read all the OP's posts.)

Exactly what I was going to say until someone beat me to it! !

k3lvc

OP - please come back and update us