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  • Alchemilla
    Alchemilla Posts: 6,252 Forumite
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    Do you feel a weight has been lifted from your shoulders now?

    And what about another look at doing a PGCE?
  • edinburgher
    edinburgher Posts: 13,870 Forumite
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    I'm not really sure that a weight has been lifted from my shoulders, but I am trying to moderate my natural concerns about what would be a very big change to our lives.
    And what about another look at doing a PGCE?

    Intellectually, I know that I could do the job and I can see why it sounds like a good fit on paper. On the other hand, it feels like it's a good fit because I'm trying to force it to be.

    I could end up being one of those wonderful engaged teachers who takes to it like a duck to water. Or I could end up like one of the teachers from the Simpsons, drinking heavily and phoning it in with 'movie time'.

    I'm not engaged in my current job, but it doesn't hurt anyone bar me. I'm not willing to risk starting children off on the wrong foot if it turned out to be a career that didn't suit.

    I hear that a lot of graduates don't last very long at all?
  • HelenDaveKids
    HelenDaveKids Posts: 3,177 Forumite
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    Good luck Ed. Me and Dave earnt the same for years whilst I worked 3 days a week but the second I went over that my earning changed a lot, plus whilst part time my increments continued to go up and so now I'm on the highest. It all goes in the same pot, and its not something we think about, we both pick up extra hours when available. I sometimes felt he didn't recognise just how demanding my job was, he supervised about 5 staff, I line manage over 40, but he now line manages 3 and his role has changed so he gets it now. We often talk about renovating properties and if he took vr I would definitely support his decision to do this as I know he'd love it. (He is an electrician by trade and very "handy")

    Btw I'm a estj.
    Morgage till Nov 30 GOAL MFW Sept 2016
    Aug 11 - £100k Aug 2016.... It's GONE!!!!!
    2014 GOAL HIT 5 Stone! 2016 GOAL to be a MF marathon runner.
    "A goal without a plan is just a wish"
  • dktreesea
    dktreesea Posts: 5,736 Forumite
    Hi E,
    Good luck with your plans to change to a more satisfying work life. There's a choice I made over ten years ago, one I've not regretted work wise for one moment, even though, ten years later, I still don't earn what I did back then.

    Financial regrets? We sold our home when we relocated. What I have found is with the much lower income it's been quite hard to find something to buy that would suit us and be within the current budget. Also, during that time, despite the recession, Edinburgh prices haven't exactly soared, but they are forever on the uptick. So in spite of our incomes getting higher over time, we've never been quite "ahead of the game" here to be able to afford what we would like. The other thing I have found, again due to lower incomes, is that any mortgage terms we are offered are not quite the best offer, something we took for granted in the higher income days.

    My advice would be to buy the place of your dreams whilst you have the higher incomes. That way, you should be able to get on the best deal. And then just trust in your plan, i.e. that over time, once you have moved career wise, your income will grow again and the dream house will become steadily more affordable over time.

    I fear if you wait say 5 years - you mentioned looking in and around Clarkston, an area I know quite well, - prices will have gone up 10%-20% in the interim. For good quality properties, both in Edinburgh and Glasgow, I wonder if the owners even noticed the recession.
  • Alchemilla
    Alchemilla Posts: 6,252 Forumite
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    I think, Ed that we lose 50% of new entrants after two or three years.
  • edinburgher
    edinburgher Posts: 13,870 Forumite
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    Mhhh... perhaps I should consider the low risk world of professional rocketeering as a fall-back? :eek:
  • edinburgher
    edinburgher Posts: 13,870 Forumite
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    edited 1 June 2014 at 3:16PM
    Sitting listening to some music from La Boheme on Classic FM, lovely. It is just the thing to drown out the construction noise from the plot behind our building, my seat is bouncing so much that I feel like I have restless leg syndrome! :rotfl:

    I went for my 8.75 miles last night. By the end, it was possibly the most gruelling 1350 calories that I have ever got rid of. I then came home, had a bath and was blech with tiredness by 10. I get rewards tho, today's lunch will be a bag of chips eaten across from some inspiring architecture on Glasgow Green :T

    I've also caught up with my office admin and have thought up some further inspirational items for my Kindle wishlist.

    To do/Freedom stuff today
    • £1.24 from free spins offer this morning
    • Started £10 free bet offer, will take a couple of weeks to settle
    • Started £5/goal scored free bet offer for World Cup, opted for Germany as my team of choice
    • Slow paying eB@y buyer coughed up, £24 or so withdrawn. I'm in no rush to post their item :p
    • [STRIKE]Send Mrs E my application to review[/STRIKE]
    • [STRIKE]Submit application #2[/STRIKE]
    • [STRIKE]Write meal plan and shopping list for tomorrow[/STRIKE]
    • Post eB@y item (tomorrow)
    • [STRIKE]Grocery shopping[/STRIKE]
    • Bottle my HB Belgian trippel
    • [STRIKE]Eat chips :D[/STRIKE]
  • ljaneyr
    ljaneyr Posts: 1,135 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary Combo Breaker

    I went for my 8.75 miles last night. By the end, it was possibly the most gruelling 1350 calories that I have ever got rid of. I then came home, had a bath and was blech with tiredness by 10. I get rewards tho, today's lunch will be a bag of chips eaten across from some inspiring architecture on Glasgow Green :T

    That is a real achievement! I would be exhausted from walking that distance! Must get back into walking again...
    "It is often said that before you die your life passes before your eyes. It is in fact true. It's called living." Terry Pratchett
    Bought our house 2012 :) Married 2015 :D Started renovating 2015 :eek:
    Renovation fund... what renovation fund? :eek: Emergency fund 40% Future fund... ongoing...
  • edinburgher
    edinburgher Posts: 13,870 Forumite
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    Managed another few miles around Glasgow Green on my lunch (with chips). It is absolutely scorching! :beer:

    Job application #2 submitted, identical job #3 has been posted online :T
  • Is there room in Glasgow for another MFWer? I'm sick of grey and rain :(

    Well done on job apps

    Tilly x x
    2004 £387k 29 years - MF March 2033:eek:
    2011 £309k 10 years - MF March 2021.
    Achieved Goal: 28/08/15 :j
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