How long does it last??

Sugarplumfairy_2

OMG ... have just read over that again .. and I am going to the bathroom with carbolic soap to wash my mouth out !!!

No wonder I am single ... will have to try and act more lady like !!

Little_Pickle

see proper posting below.... 'puter went funny and shy with all this rude posting I think!

Little_Pickle

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

oh you guys DO make me laugh! you're all so funny! I love posting here!!!

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Sugarplumfairy_2

Shoot me down if I am sabotaging this thread . I could repost elsewhere if needed .... but I would like your opinions on unladylike ladylike ladies (if that makes sense).

Are you sitting comfortably ? I shall begin ..

what is your opinion of 'normal' females. What I mean by that is females who can talk vulgar , when required, talk opnely about bodily functions, perform bodily functions etc.

I am by no means a ladette (look feminine, dress feminine etc) but have my moments when my mouth is in gear but my brain has the handbrake on and I say things sometimes crude. Do you think this puts males off ??

I dont want to have to put on a pretense to meet someone half decent, but would hate to think I would put people off .

Sorry again (I can repost remember )

ktb

I went out with someone that 'came on entry' for over 4 years. I used to think it was fine as he certainly pleasured me other ways but with hindsight it was rather frustrating I suppose. I did also find that I was constantly reassuring him it was ok and he developed a real issue about it when it wasnt actually that big a deal for me.. which was quite hard going!

The best way to resolve any sexual issue is probably to have an open and frank discussion & then both work on techniques which combat it. With something as sensitive as premature ejacualtion, thats a difficult thing to do as understandably most men will perhaps feels insecure and defensive about the issue. You need 2 willing partners to 'work it out'.

With my current partner it can last anything from 30 secs (we timed it! ) to well over an hour.. ...from the very beginning we always had an incredibly open & well discussed sex life.. and WOW does that make a difference. We dont do it all that often, but when we do it's very satisfying indeed. I have to say I do agree with those ladies who say it can 'go on a bit' tho... i'm a far bigger fan of a quickie... luckily I have a talented OH and that doesnt also mean him coming and me going without. :j

TheWaltons_3

N71 wrote: »

My OH used to drive me mad when we were first together - he'd go on for hours every time. I didn't think it was 'normal' as my ex would be done in seconds!

After 4 years together, our 'quickies' are a minimum 15 minutes! Usual is 30-45 minutes and a proper 'session' can still be hours!

But now, if its going on a bit long - i swap to his favorite position to finish him off (so to speak) in seconds!

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Same here.. i always turn to all fours when I'm getting tired.............. got my head on the pillow at least then... he loves it... we're all happy!

Sugarplumfairy_2

TheWaltons wrote: »

Same here.. i always turn to all fours when I'm getting tired.............. got my head on the pillow at least then... he loves it... we're all happy!

OMG I think we were seperated at birth .. I also piled up all the pillows to lean on and let him get on with it :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

N71

TheWaltons wrote: »

Same here.. i always turn to all fours when I'm getting tired.............. got my head on the pillow at least then... he loves it... we're all happy!

I really need to go food shopping, and housework - but I can't leave the PC!

Me on top, facing his feet, is what does it for him! :A

TheWaltons_3

Sugarplumfairy wrote: »

OMG I think we were seperated at birth .. I also piled up all the pillows to lean on and let him get on with it :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

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Yup... I get into position, then a few seconds later drop onto my forearms....... tell him how great he's doing whilst dropping onto my tummy... then snuggle into the pillow!!

Not sure what happens after that....

Shambler

Sugarplumfairy wrote: »

Shoot me down if I am sabotaging this thread . I could repost elsewhere if needed .... but I would like your opinions on unladylike ladylike ladies (if that makes sense).

Are you sitting comfortably ? I shall begin ..

what is your opinion of 'normal' females. What I mean by that is females who can talk vulgar , when required, talk opnely about bodily functions, perform bodily functions etc.

I am by no means a ladette (look feminine, dress feminine etc) but have my moments when my mouth is in gear but my brain has the handbrake on and I say things sometimes crude. Do you think this puts males off ??

I dont want to have to put on a pretense to meet someone half decent, but would hate to think I would put people off .

Sorry again (I can repost remember )

Vulgar talk from a woman is a big turn off for me, sometimes the other half starts talking dirty and I have to gag her...looks good with the blindfold and handcuffs on too :rotfl:

Seriously though, vulgar talk from a woman is a turn off for me.