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  • Fruity1
    Fruity1 Posts: 926 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Combo Breaker
    Perhaps you need to take control of the situation Poppsycorner. Many moons ago Ann Summers did a book called "How to Make Love to the Same Man for the Rest of Your Life. Don't know where my copy is or the fella I bought it for!!!
  • Me too owsa !!

    Fell like a nymph ..... had it when it was there to take .. but now seem to crave it !!! Have found myself having to turn the tv over when sex scenes are on as I can't watch it without gagging any more !!

    my friend and I have decided that we would find a 'fock buddy'(spelling changed !!) each , but I dont think I could just sleep with someone without getting too attached. So at the moment I will just 'keep myself amused'.
    Good manners cost nothing -
    Bad manners cost friends !
    Murphys No More Pies member #213
  • Fruity1 wrote: »
    Perhaps you need to take control of the situation Poppsycorner. Many moons ago Ann Summers did a book called "How to Make Love to the Same Man for the Rest of Your Life. Don't know where my copy is or the fella I bought it for!!!

    :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

    That books comes highly recommended then ???
    Good manners cost nothing -
    Bad manners cost friends !
    Murphys No More Pies member #213
  • looneyleo
    looneyleo Posts: 516 Forumite
    Thanks OP for raising the thread! Difficult subject to talk about in the open...

    Can't bring myself to comment on my love life...just too personal and too many people know me on here!!!

    I would sayt he best thing you can do is really talk this through in the cold light of day and try to discover what each of you likes, what you don't like and find ways to improve things so that you both get the satisfaction you require...

    At least you have a good start...you are actually having sex!!! Could be worse...no sex at all!
  • Little_Pickle
    Little_Pickle Posts: 3,022 Forumite
    Hi poppy!
    hmmm... okay... first of all, get yourself a rabbit. scary at first but fantastic once you get used to it. Once you know how it works / what you like etc, etc, use it with your partner. that way, you get to have your fun which he is involved with, then he can have his fun.

    Word of warning though, could initially make him more excited or he could feel bad for you wanting to introduce something new... be gentle with his little heart! :)

    The only other thing I could suggest is... and I know this sounds like it won't work... have more sex. It could be that he's really excited... maybe if you increase the frequency, he'll be less excitable than he currently is and it might last longer...

    oh, and no need to be embarrased! We're all human... we all (well most) of us have sex!

    enjoy!
    LP
    xox
  • Me too owsa !!

    Fell like a nymph ..... had it when it was there to take .. but now seem to crave it !!! Have found myself having to turn the tv over when sex scenes are on as I can't watch it without gagging any more !!

    my friend and I have decided that we would find a 'fock buddy'(spelling changed !!) each , but I dont think I could just sleep with someone without getting too attached. So at the moment I will just 'keep myself amused'.
    Aye that's the one :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: !
    Hindsight is a wonderful thing
  • looneyleo wrote: »
    At least you have a good start...you are actually having sex!!! Could be worse...no sex at all!

    Could be even worse ... no sex at all and no hands !!!!
    Good manners cost nothing -
    Bad manners cost friends !
    Murphys No More Pies member #213
  • OMG that was a bit un pc. Sorry just came out !!
    Good manners cost nothing -
    Bad manners cost friends !
    Murphys No More Pies member #213
  • Fruity1
    Fruity1 Posts: 926 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Combo Breaker
    That books comes highly recommended then ???[/quote]

    Well It worked with the next one.... But after 13yrs could perhaps do to recap might have a look in the loft!!:D
  • Could be even worse ... no sex at all and no hands !!!!
    Ok that's had me in stitches :rotfl: I love this site!
    Hindsight is a wonderful thing
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