How long does it last??

Fruity1

If Poppys as per your other thread he is out tonight assuming he gets back at a reasonable hour, perhaps this is your night to try out a few of the MANY things mentioned. So pamper yourself as Penny watcher suggests and get yourself in the mood and ready for his return. If he has had those drinks it may just slow him down to let you take control.

poppyscorner

I think I have got one hope of that happening he went out at 5.30pm and its nearly 2am now he wont be in any fit state tbh I am a bit peed off with him tonight and to top the lot my steam steriliser for babys bottles just packed up a complete pile of sh**e tommee tippee as well would u believe :mad: :mad:
Feeling angry if you hadn't guessed lol it has got to be sexual frustration think I will just have to make better friends with thumper

oasisfeverish

Ok, felt I have to butt in to the party (being male, would be rude not to).

Probably not a great thing to say with so many girls here on this thread, but what I used to do to increase the 'time' was to think in my mind, what the line up would be for my football team in their next game. So I had to start with the goalie and work up to the forwards, then subs, and what the score would be.

Obviously I never told them and made sure not to speak out aloud. But they were certainly pleased with the result, and if the team won the following Saturday so was I!:rotfl:

It's no different to couples that are imagining in their own mind which celeb/ fantasy they are acting out while with their partner.

One thing you could do is learn about edging. It's where you bring him to the edge (not not Pizza Hut) and then leave him, then repeat again, and so on. He will learn to control better and thus last longer.

Another good way is play the sub game. So one night you do what you want to him, and another night he does to you, but no penetration allowed. This helps explore each other and learn new ways of satisifaction.

Oh and ice cubes always bring in a bit of fun too.

oasisfeverish

Forgot to add, when I feel I'm too close too early, I pull out and then go down on her, this does two things, a) gives me a chance to control myself, and b) keep the OH happy as she is still getting attention, rather than laying there just waiting.

You could mention that to him, if he's ok about doing that, cos I know some blokes don't like to do that.

larmy16

My lover says he thinks of Margaret Thatcher or Anne Widdecombe to either delay or for the weapon to deflate at inopportune moments.

I loathe someone who goes on and on and on for hours. Hate being on top too. I have little legs and he has big tum, so there's no room for manouvre, even if I did have the energy!

He really is my perfect lover. Loves to please me and will spend any amount of time doing so. He is easy to please .......Perfick....:D

My ex husband had hair trigger trouble. Probably 30 seconds maximum with no foreplay. He was six years older than me and I was so naive - had no idea that women could have satisfaction.:o No wonder the marriage folded.

Great thread.

cat4772

DH and I tend to go through famine / feast cycles. Immediately after a famine it can (if I'm very very lucky) last for a whole minute start to finish!! During a feast I can miss Emerdale and Corrie and be a little sore!

My only problem is I get bored very easily and if I think things are getting a bit routine (can only liken it to 'sex by numbers') then that's a big passion killer. Best thing that helped us though was when we first got together we'd satisfy without penetration; so now if he thinks he's gonna 'arrive' before I've even got the bloody map out, he knows what he can do so we at least have a chance of arriving together!

Tom_Saunders

poppyscorner wrote: »

Hi all,

Just wondered how long that most intimate act lasts for you appreciate not a great subject at 10.55 am but I am very curious ours is very short(time I mean) and I often feel disappointed hubby is first proper long term relationship had a couple of one night stands when younger but can't really remember how long they lasted just that they happened any input gratefully received.

poppy

I love threads like this. Out record for quickness is about 7 minutes, I prefer it to last about 3o minutes but on the whole she prefers it to be over in about 15 which is a shame.

How often do most couples do it ? We usually do on a sunday morning and about once every 3 weeks in the week so about 5 or 6 times a month. Is this the norm ?

poppyscorner

Tom_Saunders wrote: »

I love threads like this. Out record for quickness is about 7 minutes, I prefer it to last about 3o minutes but on the whole she prefers it to be over in about 15 which is a shame.

How often do most couples do it ? We usually do on a sunday morning and about once every 3 weeks in the week so about 5 or 6 times a month. Is this the norm ?

No way I need it alot more often than that about 3/4 times a week is our compromise I want it 3times a night it is v important to me however hubby could go for 2 weeks and longer without he doesn't seem bothered unless I mention oral he would have that every night if he could

Tom_Saunders

N71 wrote: »

I really need to go food shopping, and housework - but I can't leave the PC!

Me on top, facing his feet, is what does it for him! :A

That's mine as well but she only does that on birthdays or anniversaries !! Reverse cowgirl it's called (Apparantly)....

Tom_Saunders

poppyscorner wrote: »

No way I need it alot more often than that about 3/4 times a week is our compromise I want it 3times a night it is v important to me however hubby could go for 2 weeks and longer without he doesn't seem bothered unless I mention oral he would have that every night if he could

shame you are married !! Just as well I've got me wrist.... He's a lucky fella.:beer: