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How long does it last??

Hi all,

Just wondered how long that most intimate act lasts for you appreciate not a great subject at 10.55 am but I am very curious ours is very short(time I mean) and I often feel disappointed hubby is first proper long term relationship had a couple of one night stands when younger but can't really remember how long they lasted just that they happened any input gratefully received.

poppy
:j:love: Getting married to the man of my dreams 5th November 2011 :love::j
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  • barnaby69
    barnaby69 Posts: 196 Forumite
    do you mean cunnilingus or do you feel you are not being penetrated for long enough?
  • TheWaltons_3
    TheWaltons_3 Posts: 1,203 Forumite
    Oral sex can last ages for me - he normally stops when he realises I am asleep.
  • poppyscorner
    poppyscorner Posts: 792 Forumite
    Trying v. hard to be clean about it but yes actual intercourse.
    :j:love: Getting married to the man of my dreams 5th November 2011 :love::j
  • poppyscorner
    poppyscorner Posts: 792 Forumite
    TheWaltons wrote: »
    Oral sex can last ages for me - he normally stops when he realises I am asleep.

    :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

    Thanks the waltons you have just made me laugh out loud x
    :j:love: Getting married to the man of my dreams 5th November 2011 :love::j
  • Fruity1
    Fruity1 Posts: 926 Forumite
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    It all depends whether the kids are home and or asleep; whether I've got to get up for work. There are a thousand different variables. Sometimes a quickie is good other times its gotta be loooong!
  • TheWaltons_3
    TheWaltons_3 Posts: 1,203 Forumite
    :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

    Thanks the waltons you have just made me laugh out loud x


    Well, actual sex can last minutes or some more minutes... but I'd say actual penetrative sex no more than 5 until he comes. The foreplay lasts a while - I make him sing for his supper!
  • OMG what a subject :eek: !!! Just before lunch too - but couldn't resist joining in !!

    When it goes on too long I kinda get bored ( probably shouldnt say that ). maybe I am selfish but when I am DONE I tend to wish he would hurry up.:D

    Obviously I had never told him that .
    Good manners cost nothing -
    Bad manners cost friends !
    Murphys No More Pies member #213
  • Fruity1
    Fruity1 Posts: 926 Forumite
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    OMG what a subject !!! Just before lunch too - but couldn't resist joining in !!

    When it goes on too long I kinda get bored ( probably shouldnt say that ). maybe I am selfish but when I am DONE I tend to wish he would hurry up.

    Obviously I had never told him that .
    I usually find there are ways of just making him get on with it tho.
  • GreenNinja
    GreenNinja Posts: 601 Forumite
    Interesting thread!

    When I first met my ex husband it would be anything from around 30mins to 2 hours.
    Then it tended to be around 15 to 30 mins.
    In the 3-4 years before we split up I think he got it down to around 3 minutes.

    :rolleyes:
  • Fruity1 wrote: »
    I usually find there are ways of just making him get on with it tho.

    Tell all !! :rotfl:
    Good manners cost nothing -
    Bad manners cost friends !
    Murphys No More Pies member #213
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