talk me down please

mellymoo74

Today Porky gotta swipe on her head because T doesn't want to be friends.
Boo apparently loooooves cat food

T is missing me loves (I can only cuddle first thing before porky gets up. She's a very jealous girl and I'm hers)

T still not eating (had a bit of his dry so I'm not overly worried)

Tomorrow back at work

wannabe_sybil

I wouldn't stress too much about food for a bit. Cats can be odd creatures, but if you can keep up the loves and the safe places then it should settle.

Now you will have endless entertainment watching Mr T and the dogs settling down.

I hope you are feeling better. Good luck at work.

mellymoo74

He has brekkie with me this morning. I think unfortunately he my cat and she my dog so a bit stretched trying to keep both happy.

Friend told me he could go live with her in a single pet household and have a big garden.

Work ok. Just feeling rank really need a few days of just sleep I think x

mellymoo74

Don't worry he's not going anywhere. Just need porky princess to understand he isn't a toy.

meritaten

Oh I think your beautiful Mr Cat would be well able to disabuse her of that notion himself! melly - that cat looks well 'at home'! but, it must be a comfort to know that your friend will provide a safe home if things don't work out.
Try to 'relax' around them melly, if you are tense they will pick up on it.
and I have to sit on my hands to stop myself from offering another 'safe haven' for him! my Barnes really wouldn't like it!

mellymoo74

Porky has big scratch on head from T attempt to play she's still going back
OH is the worrier I think T is fine another week of supervised outs and he will be allowed to go and play.

meritaten

oh poor Porky! Cats are usually well able to defend themselves! its why they have claws like 'steely knives'! thousands of years of having to live alongside dogs!
Ive known vets who say they would rather face a rottwieler than an angry cat!
OH will calm down I think as the cat establishes HIS place in your family. and as his stress decreases. which it will. as his mothers love for him finally sinks in. she did love him, that is plain from what you have posted.

mellymoo74

And like Froo T likes basa fillet (he doesn't eat fish lol)
I put some lovely Sarah Jessica Parker on after my shower Mr T woke right up nose twitching (it was my MILS)

mellymoo74

He's not even slightly an angry cat bless him. Madam had 4 warnings before he slashed.

It's starting to hit OH that we don't have to spend time with the rest of them again and she loved him, she was just crud at showing it.

mellymoo74

Sleeping porky