talk me down please

mellymoo74

I was pleased with sections of it.



Earlier tonight settling in

mellymoo74

Exhausted. OH is sleeping I am soothing Mr T who vets distressed if I leave. Gonna have to leave anyway soon so tired.
And snotty, coughing, sore nose, swollen throat.

duchy

Good for you for the home truths.

Hang on in there things are improving.

mellymoo74

Mr T and Laurs (BooBoos) have met and that went really well.

He has spent most of the day on the kitchen windowsill he's trembling a bit but has had a wee and eaten something (teeny bit but blumin food woop).

Porky princess (Froo) is still not sharing so am making a bug fuss of her.

Neighbour has offered to help move all the stuff piled into out living room to storage at work tomorrow.



We have done nothing today too tired

meritaten

I bet that feels much better now you have that off your chest melly!

mellymoo74

Mr t tried to make friends with Froo whilst I was out with Laurs OH said she grrrr under her breath.
T is having a wash


There was other stuff said around money and things Meri that were nasty directed at me.

I feel much better following my making sure they know they will not hurt OH any more

meritaten

Or you melly - make sure they cant hurt you! which they cant unless you and OH let them.
you really do not have to have ANY contact with them now.
NOW, you and OH can go on and have 'nice' lives. you have the dogs, the cat and I would guess OHs health will improve once the stress of the Evil Ones has been removed. so will yours.
and its natural for people to react after the funeral with extreme exhaustion - its the body saying 'Its all over now? Fantastic! - I can get some sleep'! because 'the body' is not feeling the emotions - just the effects of them.
it may take time to sink in - your mind has probably not caught up with the facts yet - but when it does ....................it can be so liberating.

mellymoo74

Some of our neighbours here are lovely.
OH is a bit happier Princess wa trying to get T to play (didn't go down well lol)
T and OH in bedroom having a love

mellymoo74

Mr t still not eating.

He did want one of our big loves tho so just done that back with dogs now.

mellymoo74

Laurs (BooBoos )