talk me down please

mellymoo74

Just off to get Mr T

sidefx

mellymoo74 wrote: »

Today I gave been wrapping up breakables. Buying a little tray. And taking abusive calls from nasty nephew and SIL

What about?!!!

I wouldn't answer the phone to them anymore!

So pleased Mr T is finally coming home

thorsoak

Would it really be wise for you and OH to move into MiL's house? Would that not expose him - and you - to more abuse from his family?

Surely less stressful for him and most definitely you - to break the bonds completely.

And why are you still answering to phone to them? Ignore them!

mellymoo74

Need to move OH nit good with change so somewhere he knows

Mr T is in he's eaten (first thing he did) us having a squeaky explore in the kitchen (door closed)

wannabe_sybil

I suspect that the witches are still addicted to all the drama and are wanting you to feed it. I would avoid as much as possible and be as colourless as you can when you can't.

Sending hugs and a certain amount of cat envy

(actually, calling SIL and Aunty witches is a bit of an insult to witches. Sorry to all witches)

mellymoo74

It was felt we should have moved the last of the stuff thus calls from both of them to OH until I took the phone told them several expletives and blocked numbers.

Next stage dog and cat introduction.

mellymoo74

Currently

mellymoo74

Eating straight away probably not a bad sign.
Just porky princess the possessive one meeting to do.

mellymoo74

Seeing each other didn't go too well Princess went hyper T went puffed out. Door closed again.
I am in with t need to go and see porky

thorsoak

Give them time ....Princess Porky will accept Mr T and as long as Mr T can have an "escape" route - up high if necessary - things will settle okay - it will take time though x