talk me down please

mellymoo74

Absolutely !!!!!!ed.
Moved lots of stuff today. Mr Cat put himself in the car lol OH has decided this means he's happy with the idea of living with us.

wannabe_sybil

Trust me, a cat knows when he is on to a good thing.

I think it will be an odd few weeks, getting back to earth after all the rubbish. What with one thing and another, I suggest you take it really easy and try and get support for OH for lingering damage from the whole set up - but thanks to you he is free of it!

I hope your throat is feeling better.

mellymoo74

Am sat with him now.

He's supposed to be a fussy boy. He tried the 'this food isn't as nice give me the nicer one' last night but ate it when I said no.
He's put some weight on, his costs lovely and glossy.

It wasn't just putting himself in the car OH came in the kitchen and laughed at me and Mr Cat having a big cuddle and dance last night.

Really really good natured boy OH also saw the Mr T Cat and Melly evening conversation 'Mr T chirrups away and I answer him'

I am thinking nasty aunt (who was going to put him outside !!!!!)
Has been hitting him he knows I won't let that happen so stays with me.

mellymoo74

He's a completely different boy.

OH looked at him playing last night and said 'he's lovely isn't he'

(He was rolling around on his back singing for the fishing line toy)

mellymoo74

OH is having a bad day.
Has decided I am having an affair.
Have sent him to a friends as he's driving me mad.
Need to rest for another hour then Mr Cat.
Swollen shut throat has been joined by excess amounts of yellow snot and high temperature.

wannabe_sybil

Your OH does not deserve you. You should remind him of this when he comes to his senses.

Sending hugs. This is a tough time. You may be able to get through this, especially with cat cuddles. I really hope you can find a way to pull together for both of you.

mellymoo74

He's being an idiot. He does this sometimes usually when feeling low.
Gotta get energy to feed Mr T Cat

elsien

You have to wonder where on earth he thinks you've got the time and energy from. Hope he comes to his senses soon.

mellymoo74

Ah your forgetting Elsien 'he's doing everything on his own'
He's an idiot

meritaten

well, the only 'significant other' in your life right now seems to be Mr Cat! you have hardly had the time to carry on an affair!
laff it off melly - but, take OHs state of mind seriously. sounds to me like he is using a 'distraction' technique to avoid dealing with the 'real issues'. That is, he has constructed a scenario and is focusing on that rather than his grief and his anger with members of his family. Which needs dealing with ASAP.