talk me down please

mellymoo74

I have taken a valium OH is asleep finally

meritaten

Not quite as bad as you were expecting then melly.
The worst IS over now - now you can both grieve properly. You don't have to have contact with anyone you don't want to. very liberating!

mellymoo74

Lots of undermining and excluding of OH. Keeping sober and away from everyone helped.

When the jewellery stuff started I got OH out of the room and suggested home.

When the sobby wonderful mum, miss her do much stuff started I took myself out.

Wasn't pleasant but done, OH is sleeping we are getting stuff out before anyone gets there tomorrow so won't see them.

mellymoo74

mellymoo74

wannabe_sybil

That is a very contented cat.

Take the credit for getting yourself and OH through today. You really need to recognise how remarkably well you have coped with what is a remarkably awful situation.

I think it is going to be time for you and OH to start healing. I am sure Mr T will help - I have serious cat envy!

mellymoo74

Still there lol we have a snore purr thing going on now.
He makes it bearable he's such a lovely boy.

mellymoo74

Right my lovely friends are coming over in a van to move the other furniture to storage work have given me.
I am very lucky.
I do look like a bullfrog glands in throat are up lots so think antibiotics failed.
Going to go to see woman in charge of allocations at housing to try and get moved to MIL'S as this would help OH.
Tomorrow I am moving my son in I miss him and he wanted me to stay last night.
I think he knew what day it was (aware that sounds daft) he was extra lovely

wannabe_sybil

Seriously, cats know

Good luck today.

meritaten

Hope it all went smoothly melly - and hope mr Cat can find a few cuddles for your OH.