talk me down please

pebbles88

mellymoo74 wrote: »

ok
OH has just run into his Aunt (he was polite so I am proud)
SIL is claiming the housing association have asked about a will.
I think she is a narcissistic fantasist

Did mil owe anything to the housing association? That's the only reason I think they could possibly ask about a will.....


But hang on...... Silly me...... I forgot the terrible twins will be after even more money now! :mad::mad::mad:

mellymoo74

Housing g benefit so a week will be owed HA won't care about how it's paid.

She's just being SIL.

I am sooooo tired gonna have a nap

meritaten

HA asked about a will? um, the only reason I can think of that HA would possibly be interested in a will - would be if she had a dependent living with her who could take over tenancy - and surely they would know that? and she didn't did she? apart from Mr Cat!
is SIL a bit scared that MIL MIGHT have made out a will towards the end? or knows she has, and wants to know if your OH found it. or she is in 'lalaland'! What a strange thing to say!

mellymoo74

Think she's just mad Meri.

Throat is swollen again have rammed Chinese down it just got Mr cat to do then bed

meritaten

I do wish you hadn't mentioned Chinese - am craving Special Chow Mien now! lol, a boyfriend I had as a teen was Chinese - and he used to laugh and say 'ah, you like peasant food'! but, Yes I do!


probably, SIL is just trying to 'stir'. Housing Assocations don't really care about wills and such. unless there was a 'dependant' living in the house.

mellymoo74

Right ordering flea and worming stuff for sunny jim (who is washing at me after a filling meal of whiskers rabbit on gravy)

OH decided whilst we may need to eat it doesn't mean I need to cook

mellymoo74

Currently biiig love time we are purring in our sleep whilst cling on to a boob gotta love him daft creature.

mellymoo74

This is a Mr Cat big love

wannabe_sybil

There is such a lot of love in that cat. I really, really miss cat cuddles at the moment.

You will look wonderful in that dress. I also desperately envy the shoes.

Take care of yourself.

mellymoo74

The shoes are very me, and my MIL would love the colour.
Chapel of rest was ok. OH tucked a hankie in to MIL'S outfit she would have loved that.
Ordered a multi wormer and flea stuff yesterday so can treat my lovely boy.
He wanted me to stay yesterday. I am going late today (hair in 10 mins just a dry cut running g over after that)
I think as the aunt was there yesterday he needed extra reassurance and that's why we had an extra big love.