talk me down please

mellymoo74

Today I feel pants.
Throat, jaw and neck hurt.

My shoes arrived today they are lovely. Hair is booked so I will look presentable

sidefx

mellymoo74 wrote: »

Today I feel pants.
Throat, jaw and neck hurt.

My shoes arrived today they are lovely. Hair is booked so I will look presentable

You need to rest Melly, you won't feel better till you do.
Look after yourself and Mr T Cat..he needs you, as does Mr Melly, but sometimes you need to start with taking care of yourself x

meritaten

and get that cat home! high place for his 'hidey hole' and introduce him to his new doggy siblings in a relaxed way. and make sure they cant 'gang up on him'. He is a former 'street cat' - I am sure he can take care of himself with your help. and your dogs just need persuading he is now 'family'. oh and the fact your place is full of furniture - that's a bonus I think - gives the dogs less chance of catching the cat.

mellymoo74

I am trying to get us moved to his house.
Means garden, OH feels close to mum, no further for work should fins out this week (fingers crossed)
Just another couple of days then I can sleep

mellymoo74

Seriously overslept should be at work in 10 still got dog walk and cat to sort out.
Sat here coming round

wannabe_sybil

Hugs

Your body is telling you that you are running out of resources. I suspect also that your body is telling you that it is getting safer to be at the end of those resources, because as you no longer have MIL depending on you then you can cut yourself a little slack and your body is now relaxing enough to feel poorly. Please, please keep looking after yourself and OH - and I suggest that you insist that he fusses you! That's healthy.

I think that there is light at the end of the tunnel, fingers crossed. Cat cuddles help.

Take care.

mellymoo74

they do, he didnt want me to leave him this morning.
And I didnt want to leave him either.

mellymoo74

so had to spend lunch calming OH down
his back has gone completely so hes worried about getting stuff moved.

have organised a hand from the lads at work so that should help

am utterly exhausted now, just another 2 hours at work then have the huge amount of homestuff to do

mellymoo74

just to put some of the stuff in context (as it feels and sounds like we have been moving stuff forever)

my MIL had 3 brand new boxed irons. anyone seen the programme about horders? Its like that but was neat

RAS

mellymoo

Know what you mean but mum was hoarder; with her type of dementia the intention was there but the action never materialised.