talk me down please

pebbles88

meritaten wrote: »

melly - time to stop this madness! you BOTH need to stop this. Melly - the house just needs to be tidy and cleared out - the Landlord will send in a cleaning team anyway. I think you said it was HA? this would be standard practice. you are working yourselves up - and why? why knock yourselves out clearing up after the evil ones? just feed and water cat and leave the house to whatever will happen.
OH is winding you up with simple questions now - and perhaps you couldn't wake him because he was sleeping the sleep of the totally exhausted. its his only escape from what he perceives as a nightmare. and you snapped because you were jealous of him sleeping!
I am not telling you off melly - I am just really concerned about you. I think you are doing too much and it really isn't necessary.
Agree with Sybil - your body is trying its best to get you to look after it and REST! now both of you take a day, or until the funeral, off from MILs. Go get some fresh air away from MILs and home for an hour or two - take those lovely dogs out for a good run somewhere - it will do them and you so much good. get a takeaway on the way home, eat and go to bed. and I forbid you to even THINK about MILs house/funeral/cat/sister/daughter! both of you seem to be carrying this situation around with you like sacks of coal! time to put the load down for good melly.
Sorry to come across as a lecturing old bat - but, I think you both have become so embroiled in this that its become your only 'way of life'.

Please please listen to this melly, before you both drop & possibly do irreparable damage to your relationship. You both really need some time off from this. Everything will keep for a day or two. Perhaps a friend could go feed the cat?

((((Hugs))))

DigForVictory

Honeygirl, unless you need to work to eat, please take at least a day off?
Cuddle the cat, leave the phone off, do whatever helps you when dreich with cold, water the rose cuttings (still love that idea), roast more beef for OH & fourpaws? Just briefly get off the mad ride & give your body a chance.
All the daftness will still be waiting on the other side - you are Allowed to have a rest.
Big hugs.

meritaten

I hope the silence from melly means that she and OH are taking some R & R time!

mellymoo74

OH is sleeping I am having a cuddle

Which apparently includes love bites

pebbles88

Melly has been online, I hope whatever she or they decided to do that all is ok x

mellymoo74

Waiting for little one to come back. Giving him two then it's outside dreamies.

Worn out

meritaten

melly - he is lovely! highly intelligent I should think, and a real 'character'.
Get some rest melly - you are a 'super' woman, not a 'superwoman'. ((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))

wannabe_sybil

That cat is gorgeous...

Just logging in to say 'hi, have hugs, you are going beyond duty, look after yourself, take care.'

mellymoo74

Thank you. OH mood was bad again last night.
New phrase is 'I have to do all this on my own'

Both of us are not well which is not helping.

mellymoo74

Throat is swollen shut.
Fed Mr cat and he's gone out so my beloved is now panicking that he's lost.
I am going to sleep