talk me down please

meritaten

OOOHHH Melly - you could have some fun with the money thing! but, you wouldn't be so mean as to let them think you are even considering paying it? (where is the tongue-in-cheek smiley when you want it?).
don't worry about where and when the funeral is - there are easy ways to find out. Nice nephew will probably tell you - if not just ring the most likely florist they would use on the pretext of 'checking the delivery address is correct'. this is usually to funeral directors (if you don't have a good idea which they will use) - and the funeral directors wont refuse to give out the arrangements details.

mellymoo74

We will be fine I know which funeral directors so gonna call tomorrow to check details.

Fun will be had.

mellymoo74

OH ate!
Most of a roast beef dinner

Yay
Right dog walk, t cat spoiling, shower, wash up, t cat, dogs, bed

meritaten

That's a good sign Melly - getting his apatite back.
you sound a lot better today. seeing the light at the end of the tunnel now?

mellymoo74

Managing to make OH find their behaviour funny instead of getting upset. I think the fact they smashed the stuff they were stealing helped him.
Plus feel too rank (stupid cold)

meritaten

Well, the expression 'THICK as thieves' DOES seem to fit doesn't it? they aren't half as clever as they think they are - as my old nan would say.

elsien

mellymoo74 wrote: »

Oh and still haven't actually said when it is........

If she's having the service at a crematorium, you can phone them directly to ask when it is.

mellymoo74

Luckily they let slip the funeral home whilst they weren't thinking and I remember stuff.
Yep Meri nowhere near as smart as they think. Plus I genuinely believe that it's cursed as it's stolen

meritaten

'Things' you have no right to, bring you no joy! I believe that too melly - my nan (who was a very wise woman), believed it too.
I also believe that 'what goes around, comes around'. I think SIL is already receiving that. Aunt must have it to come. If not in this life then in the next.

mellymoo74

Aunt knows it's Coming I Think. Can't look at OH.

Oh apparently aunts flowers are going on top of the coffin er are they