talk me down please

mellymoo74

Ladies and gentlemen we have poo.

Power went off last night so I was up with T Used his litter tray and was fascinated by my clean it lol

mellymoo74

so
Power went off, I get woken up to sort it out up till 3am at work for 8am.
Power company came back will need to dig the front up to complete repair, OH has a giant hissy fit because he needs to move stuff, (he doesnt they will but he isnt hearing logic) I have to call to rearrange for when I am at home whilst fielding text messages from him being an idiot.

T has to go apparently (am ignoring him, T is only going if he and Froo dont settle down not because OH is having a 4 year old temper tantrum)

Have reminded him that he isnt the only one who is sleep deprived, I didnt break the power, and he is being stupid.

duchy

Nothing worse than a stubborn male with a cob on.
Mine is the same and I often wish I could sit him on the naughty step to think LOL

I just agree with his most ridiculous suggestions of what has to go- me, his cat, the PC etc etc and carry on as normal . The next day he's forgotten the ridiculous things he suggested. He works some stupid combinations of shifts so sleep deprivation is often a lot of it.

mellymoo74

nope little un isnt going, not when hes eating (had a proper breakfast) and pooing. This tells me he is starting to settle.
Hopefully my bouncy one will also start to calm down and in a week or so I can let T out to play which will help.

Hes always been prone to tantrums, at the moment they are ridiculously bad.

DigForVictory

Hang on in there! Keep watering the cuttings? Resist drenching Himself, tempting though it may be...

mellymoo74

he came to see me at work,
said sorry
asked how I put up with him

The answer is
with great bloody difficulty at the minute

meritaten

awwww mel, at least once he calms down he REALISES he is being a prat! improvement wouldn't you say?I honestly think he will get better as he realises he now is totally liberated from the Evil Ones! it WILL take a while to really sink in - he is grieving his mother and what could have been. stick with it melly - you can be understanding and take no crap at the same time! we know that - you have been doing it a long time!

sidefx

mellymoo74 wrote: »

he came to see me at work,
said sorry
asked how I put up with him

The answer is
with great bloody difficulty at the minute

But you do!

For a reason.

x

mellymoo74

I fainted last night
On top of baby gate
Apparently this is a combination of my fault and T's fault
Today T and Laurs are mooching around together

mellymoo74

I am calling the pain clinic today, need to get the physio appointment cancelled and rush through an appointment with the psychologist.

Coping with the many moods (most of them nasty) of OH is difficult