talk me down please

mellymoo74

Mr T Cat has been fed. Brushed given dreamies.

He has sprayed me so my dogs are not going to be happy (I did brush him with a glove brush I use on porky so they can all get used to each other smells.

He's gone out but he's a happyish cat.

mellymoo74

I have similar feelings Meri. It's psychologist on Tuesday so that might help.

mellymoo74

Up at 6.30 later gotta go over feed and play with cat then get OH who hasn't slept for a couple of days up because him and nephew are moving some of the huge stuff tomorrow/today.

Arthritis is now in OH fingers in one hand they are gnarled this is new

mellymoo74

Mr T Cat is fed watered and out will go back in a couple of hours to let him back in. OH is sleeping.

mellymoo74

And he's collapsed

Mojisola

mellymoo74 wrote: »

And he's collapsed

The body and mind can only take so much stress - hope this is the turning point.

mellymoo74

He's just having a smoothie massage then sleeping tablet am bullying.
His hand is really gnarled docs tomorrow

mellymoo74

Got out of him what caused the meltdown there isn't an adequately rude word I can use to describe the people he had the misfortune to grow up with.

mellymoo74

Just realised something that I shared with OH and it cheered him up slightly, he has found things like a silver bangle his dad got for his mum when he was stationed abroad and some other sentimental bits. All of them were hidden in things OH had got for his mum.......

wannabe_sybil

Melly, your husband is so lucky to have you. It looks like his mother knew underneath what was going on, but messed up a lot. I would use some swear words in there if I could.

I honestly think that now is a good time for taking things hour by hour and just trying to get through it. Reach out for any support you can scratch together and know that it isn't always going to be like this. Hold on to the good bits, the little glimpses that show what could have been. You are going through perhaps the hardest part and while there will be challenges, things have to get better.

Sending hugs.