talk me down please

mellymoo74

It's so we can bid for council properties as well as this housing association.

Want to try to stay on here cos got a docs that understands and it maybe getting rougher but I know lots of people here.

Will see, his sleep is baaad again
I have several things to do tomorrow will update once done

mellymoo74

Assessment done as best we can when the person to be assessed won't play.
Now we wait
I am feeling flat, why dunno just flat lol

pollyanna_26

Was your husband physically in the room or not Melly . Sometimes a patient who wont or can't engage can actually highlight the complex nature of these situations . In the past I ended up talking to a consultant , doctor or other professionals minus dd as it was too scary for her to face . This led to different ways being used to facilitate treatment and other things .


Your husband has a very mixed experience of care and treatment so his trust has probably long gone and he can't see the point .


You say you have a good Dr so I would try to get them involved a bit like ours has acting as a hub and providing detailed information to any other professionals so they get a better picture of the patient and are often adaptable around MH problems .


I think it's a good idea to try for accommodation in the area you know . Apart from anything else I'm sure a lot of neighbours would miss the Melly walk .


Chin up love

polly x

mellymoo74

Not
He refused to get up.
She was going to put the report in anyway but said they may have to come back.
She saw him in bed so knows that he exists.

mellymoo74

So pillow lift is coming on Thursday
She was mainly annoyed at my helping him out of bed and stuff.
Carers assessment only issue is the pets
Hmmm

AylesburyDuck

mellymoo74 wrote: »

So pillow lift is coming on Thursday
She was mainly annoyed at my helping him out of bed and stuff.
Carers assessment only issue is the pets
Hmmm

Pets Melly, why would they be an issue?:(

mellymoo74

AylesburyDuck wrote: »

Pets Melly, why would they be an issue?:(

They would need to be locked up apparently
No access to garden so that's kyboshed until we can move
Ever felt like you were banging your head against a wall?

AylesburyDuck

mellymoo74 wrote: »

They would need to be locked up apparently
No access to garden so that's kyboshed until we can move
Ever felt like you were banging your head against a wall?

OMG, didnt even cross my mind that would be a thing! :eek:

mellymoo74

AylesburyDuck wrote: »

OMG, didnt even cross my mind that would be a thing! :eek:

Me either
So not only would I have to get OH to agree but pets would need to be locked up which is not very fair and can you imagine the mess I would have to sort out.

mellymoo74

!!!!!!

Ask for deadlock letter as housing don't see it as a failure

NOW it's raised as a complaint