talk me down please

mellymoo74

Apparently the housing aren't even going to raise it as a complaint as 'no service has been missed'
Hmm
Think I'm going to ask for a deadlock letter as I think it is a complaint then go to the housing ombudsman.
Waiting for the OT to call back to arrange for the assessment so on appropriate level for council.

Laurs is driving me insane.

phryne

pollyanna_26 wrote: »

I'm aware this is an open forum however with long running threads it helps to have followed the journey and be aware of the struggles people have faced as they fight for proper medical help and support .


I have spent the past year fighting for the correct treatment and support my dd should have received over the past 20 years while she suffered from the fallout of wrong treatment .


Thankfully she has had all the help now and is a different person . She had eds which ruled her life and wrecked her physical health among other mental and physical diagnoses . This year she finally got her diagnosis of Borderline PD 30 years after being wrongly diagnosed with Aspergers and thanks to our wonderful GP has both the treatment and validation lacking in the past .


I believe we all need to be mindful before replying to posts . A careless comment can cause a lot of damage . It isn't a case of only making "Nice " comments . It is awareness of someone's difficulties and supporting them through difficult times . Without the back story you can't even begin to imagine what it's like to walk in their shoes .
I have never reported a post and you haven't broken forum rules but I suggest pausing before making a comment when you don't know the full story .
polly

I think it's wonderful that people are using the internet for support. This is, however a money saving website? And as you say I haven't written anything which breaks forum rules, yet my posts are disappearing (except for the last one which by some miracle seems to still be there.. for now?)


Not everyone has the time let alone the inclination to go back over pages and pages (years, in fact) worth of posts.

mellymoo74

Any advice on stopping idiot from barking?
Preferably before I kill him.

Friend is getting a puppy today, is a pug, chihuahua cross have explained that we think Frey has chihuahua somewhere in her make up and that what makes her a stage 5 clingon that chews everything I own if on her own for 10 mins or shoves the window open and goes looking for me (honest happened a few times last year when I was at the hospital)

I will get a pic up cos, puppy

mellymoo74

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Waaaaa that lil face!

HBS x

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Phryne, I am gently going to suggest that this is not the thread for you. The different areas of the board have different topics discussed on them - there's only a few purely dedicated to money

(You're also quite active on DT which rarely discusses moneysaving unless it's in a countrywide or global context, haha!)

HBS x

mellymoo74

heartbreak_star wrote: »

Waaaaa that lil face!

HBS x

I know he's beautiful
Has his second injection on Saturday so will come for a walk with me and the zoo lol
Should be fun if Frey doesn't eat him

mellymoo74

He is very very cute
Was forced to go for a squish
Bodily
At gun point

Pollycat

heartbreak_star wrote: »

Phryne, I am gently going to suggest that this is not the thread for you. The different areas of the board have different topics discussed on them - there's only a few purely dedicated to money

(You're also quite active on DT which rarely discusses moneysaving unless it's in a countrywide or global context, haha!)

HBS x

I've read the thread on DT.
I'm going to gently suggest an alternative:

Pollycat wrote: »

Best if those posts are left to stand with no comment - imho.

That poster - who I have no issue with (I agree with some things posted and have even 'thanked' some of her posts) - clearly feels that MSE rules allow her to post on any thread she wishes as long as she is not contravening MSE rules.

She is absolutely right.
From MSE rules:

If you don’t like someone, their situation, their question or feel they’re intruding on ‘your board’ then please bite the bullet and think of the bigger issue.

So, let the posts stand if they don't contravene MSE rules.
I won't be reading them - not because she is on 'ignore' - because I'm not interested in what she has to say specifically on this thread.

Onwards and upwards, guys.
It's a lovely morning.

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It was freezing when I left the house but the sun's out now and I am wearing a cat ear headband to work for Halloween

HBS x