talk me down please

mellymoo74

Butter wouldn't melt lol

pollyanna_26

phryne wrote: »

This is a public forum, anyone can post. I haven't posted anything which breaks forum rules, yet my posts keep getting reported and deleted, so what's going on?


Has the OP got some sort of agreement with MSE that only the replies / posters she likes can post on this thread. Seriously, I'm beginning to wonder.


Oh, and report this if you like...


sigh

I'm aware this is an open forum however with long running threads it helps to have followed the journey and be aware of the struggles people have faced as they fight for proper medical help and support .


I have spent the past year fighting for the correct treatment and support my dd should have received over the past 20 years while she suffered from the fallout of wrong treatment .


Thankfully she has had all the help now and is a different person . She had eds which ruled her life and wrecked her physical health among other mental and physical diagnoses . This year she finally got her diagnosis of Borderline PD 30 years after being wrongly diagnosed with Aspergers and thanks to our wonderful GP has both the treatment and validation lacking in the past .


I believe we all need to be mindful before replying to posts . A careless comment can cause a lot of damage . It isn't a case of only making "Nice " comments . It is awareness of someone's difficulties and supporting them through difficult times . Without the back story you can't even begin to imagine what it's like to walk in their shoes .
I have never reported a post and you haven't broken forum rules but I suggest pausing before making a comment when you don't know the full story .
polly

mellymoo74

There are a fair few posts telling me off usually because I have done something daft. I have always said that I welcome different views, I may not act on them but lol.

I just don't see the point of picking, plus deleting your own posts so you can claim that your being picked on.

On ignore because I don't see the point in reading posts that are only designed to hurt.

I am going back to not engaging.

mellymoo74

https://youtu.be/NDTRHsAFXYs

He maybe a perv but he's a healthy perv

charlie3090

Lol,
one of my cats, elderly hyperthyroid does that a lot,
if Im laying on my belly he jumps on my back and starts getting frisky with the back of my head,
hes a weirdo but lovely too x

mellymoo74

It's fleece with Ty
Makes him frisky

So just done my evening walk, pick, Ty and Trink came.
Ty was good (for a change)
Pick was over her not enough chicken strop
Trink is frisky so gamboling and today we partially climbed a tree

Here he is pretending not to come with me

https://youtu.be/lBjxuMdLooY

Pollycat

pollyanna_26 wrote: »

I'm aware this is an open forum however with long running threads it helps to have followed the journey and be aware of the struggles people have faced as they fight for proper medical help and support .


I have spent the past year fighting for the correct treatment and support my dd should have received over the past 20 years while she suffered from the fallout of wrong treatment .


Thankfully she has had all the help now and is a different person . She had eds which ruled her life and wrecked her physical health among other mental and physical diagnoses . This year she finally got her diagnosis of Borderline PD 30 years after being wrongly diagnosed with Aspergers and thanks to our wonderful GP has both the treatment and validation lacking in the past .


I believe we all need to be mindful before replying to posts . A careless comment can cause a lot of damage . It isn't a case of only making "Nice " comments . It is awareness of someone's difficulties and supporting them through difficult times . Without the back story you can't even begin to imagine what it's like to walk in their shoes .
I have never reported a post and you haven't broken forum rules but I suggest pausing before making a comment when you don't know the full story .
polly

Pollyanna
Best if you don't quote posts from someone who Melly has on 'ignore' as she can't see those posts but I think she can if they are quoted by someone else. (I may be wrong about that).


Best if those posts are left to stand with no comment - imho.

pollyanna_26

Sorry Melly . I was called to the phone as I was about to post and missed the fact you had the poster on ignore



I hope you can get some help with other housing asap and at some point may feel able to make use of the very useful link posted by Elsien . Take care of you as well as your husband and the four footed ones .


Get well soon Gitdog . Life has been hectic here over the past year and I've missed the Gitdog pictures and Melly's dogs and mogs .


polly x

mellymoo74

It's ok Pollyanna it's a natural reaction to quote.

Plus Ed is something that you have experienced so you feel strongly.
Housing are bumfaces.
Had notification that the building of 124 properties and the road have been agreed so getting OH away from here has become more important and urgent.

More videos to go up later

mellymoo74

As promised watch out for how scary trink is
https://youtu.be/S4_2ionjRYA