talk me down please

mellymoo74

Hi Meri

This will be his 3rd session it's part of the pain management doobery he wants me to go cos he knows he will clam up. I want to try and wangle more sessions heaven knows he needs it (I don't mean he's mad I mean following his upbringing being told it's not his fault would be helpful)

None shouty nephew hasn't emailed back quire upset by that if honest.

mellymoo74

And thanks everyone this is helping me to not do anything stupid

meritaten

oh sorry - 3rd session. ask him how he feels about psych. does he trust her/him? is it working for him? does he feel comfortable with them? would he prefer someone else? (sometimes the relationship doesn't 'click' and he could be referred to someone else).by the third session he should know this. I suspect he needs you along to 'help' him open up. the psychologist should be amenable to this.

mellymoo74

He's being all male about it, as in the psychologist is 'alright' lol.

He's not seen them since November and obviously the outside pressures have increased drastically.

He is ok today which is good, the problem is me angry, twitchy and sad.

mellymoo74

This week will be busy.
Tomorrow work and psychologist
Wednesday work and INTERVIEW AT JAGUAR!!
Thursday work and NVQ
Friday 2nd driving lesson and NVQ possible couch delivery.

mellymoo74

Had an email off nice nephew yay feel much better. Let OH know and he's happy

meritaten

Its nice to know that not ALL the family are mental cases!

mellymoo74

meritaten wrote: »

Its nice to know that not ALL the family are mental cases!

I told OH and he said he was gonna ask me to email see if we got a response. He's a good kid would have said the same of the other one pre Wednesday.

meritaten

the problem is - children believe their parents. we had that - by cutting out OHs Brother and his wife - their children don't acknowledge us. its upsetting,but, we are the enemy now. we cant do anything about that. we have to accept our nieces and nephew wont have anything to do with us or with any of our family. apparently we are all wrong and horrible people.

mellymoo74

Psychologist said anyone would struggle at the minute and OH needs to not worry too much about how he copes with pain.
So docs tomorrow for some sleeping tablets or something.

He's so tired and stressed that he shouted at the dogs yesterday which meant lots if soothing people and animals for me.

I had to cancel Jaguar interview as I was on site and they wouldn't reschedule. I am going to have to stay where I am for now I can't do everything and OH has to take priority I think (I am annoyed by this oddly)