New Relationship advice

Gloomendoom

aileth wrote: »

60-70 times in three months sounds like a nightmare to me, even at the start of a relationship, and I don't even have kids.

Cut the lady some slack!

You need to read the book!

aileth

Gloomendoom wrote: »

You need to read the book!

Don't tell OH, I barely have time in the evenings for housework and studying never mind rumpy-pumpy:rotfl:

Gloomendoom

Cotta wrote: »

Or maybe don't feed the troll

The nature of the OP's other posts don't suggest that he lives under a bridge.

Ozzuk

aileth wrote: »

60-70 times in three months sounds like a nightmare to me, even at the start of a relationship, and I don't even have kids.

Cut the lady some slack!

Absolutely. It was an example of an opposite.

Ozzuk

Cotta wrote: »

Or maybe don't feed the troll

you are fully entitled to your opinion but I'd appreciate it if you'd stay away from my thread if you don't think its real.

I think I'd make up wilder stories!

Mirno

Have you talked about this with her?
If not I suggest you do - relationships involve two people and both their desires and feelings are important. Pick your words carefully though!

Also have you spent much time apart?
It's easy in a new relationship to spend all your time together and love it. But I think it can be more telling how you feel about the other person when they're not around.

Mirno

Ozzuk

NYGiants wrote: »

I'm not sure you're the best person to be offering advice; especially after 2 failed marriages behind you..

I certainly know what you shouldn't do

Ozzuk

Mirno wrote: »

Have you talked about this with her?
If not I suggest you do - relationships involve two people and both their desires and feelings are important. Pick your words carefully though!

Also have you spent much time apart?
It's easy in a new relationship to spend all your time together and love it. But I think it can be more telling how you feel about the other person when they're not around.

Mirno

I haven't yet, but I'm planning on doing so hence the advice first as I agree, I need to phrase it carefully and not come across like a demanding !!!. We spent a lot of time apart, see each other the odd evening, 2-3 times a week max. We text daily, I do miss her when she isn't around.

The_Hurricane

Ozzuk wrote: »

you are fully entitled to your opinion but I'd appreciate it if you'd stay away from my thread if you don't think its real.

I think I'd make up wilder stories!

60 times per month, your hand must be sore.

dandelionclock30

Just ask her honestly about it, you will know by her response if shes telling the truth or not. She just may not fancy you, thats why you need to ask her straight up.
She may be quite jaded with men and cant be bothered with sex. If so thats fair enough, but you need to know where you stand.