Wayn

paulineb_2

Tink2 wrote: »

Thank you, that puts my mind at rest




I've never told him who to be friends with but I wouldn't be with someone who had female friends, I am entitled to that choice

Do you have specific reasons for not wanting a partner to have female friends?

Tink2

paulineb wrote: »

Do you have specific reasons for not wanting a partner to have female friends?

Because I couldn't handle him being close to another female he's not related to

Carmina-Piranha_2

Tink2 wrote: »

Because I couldn't handle him being close to another female he's not related to

Erm, okay. Is the thread going to be about this now?

If not, WAYN is an odd one. I got suckered into signing up for it ages ago, and just deleted the emails for ages.

Were you looking at his emails with him, or did he actually tell you about this email and you'd never have found out about it if he'd kept quiet?

Tink2

Carmina-Piranha wrote: »

Erm, okay. Is the thread going to be about this now?

If not, WAYN is an odd one. I got suckered into signing up for it ages ago, and just deleted the emails for ages.

Were you looking at his emails with him, or did he actually tell you about this email and you'd never have found out about it if he'd kept quiet?

Was looking at his emails with him

ciderwithrosie_2

Yeah, I signed up to it years ago as someone I vaguely knew invited me. I hardly ever go on there as I've only been abroad once! I still get emails all the time ... 'So and so' would like to meet you' or 'So and so' would like you to rate his photo, so it seems some people do use it like a pick up place.

I wouldn't assume anything dodgy was going on just from the emails though, I never reply to mine!

System

Never heard of it personally but if you go by what everyone else is saying it's probably nothing to worry about

Had it been a dating site my advice would be different (that was one if the first signs my ex was a cheating !!!!!!)

victory

Tink2 wrote: »

Because I couldn't handle him being close to another female he's not related to

Of course this is your choice but is it realistic? Does he not have female friends in the workplace? From school? From before you? Has he then had to get rid of all his female friends to be in a relationship with you?

ab.da54

paulineb wrote: »

How did he have a password if he wasnt the person who made the account?

Tink2 wrote: »

That's exactly what I said, he said that they could have got it from his email but the passwords aren't exactly the same

I just think there too much of a coincidence that the password was the one he uses on almost every other thing he's signed up to for it to have been someone else who created the account or for the account to have been created without his knowledge

This would raise questions for me, I have to say.

I do no know much about social media sites but, cloning passwords? I am not so sure on this.

Tink2

victory wrote: »

Of course this is your choice but is it realistic? Does he not have female friends in the workplace? From school? From before you? Has he then had to get rid of all his female friends to be in a relationship with you?

It is realistic, we both work from home, he's not in touch with anyone from school, he's not mates with exs either

ab.da54 wrote: »

This would raise questions for me, I have to say.

I do no know much about social media sites but, cloning passwords? I am not so sure on this.

Yeah it raised questions for me too

marisco_2

Tink2 wrote: »

I chose to be with someone who doesn't have female friends

Doesn't that lead to a very restrictive existence? Few people can isolate themselves from relating with the opposite sex, but they can put in sensible boundaries that will keep those relationships from ever getting out of hand. Out of interest does he discourage you from having male friends?