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My 15 year old daughter has been killed by a lorry

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  • harrys_nan
    harrys_nan Posts: 1,777 Forumite
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    I have just read your tribute to Martha and although it brought tears to my eyes, I could also feel the love for her.
    My nephew is a red head as well and his nickname is ginger kid.
    Love to you and your family,
    harrys nan xx
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  • thatgirlsam
    thatgirlsam Posts: 10,451 Forumite
    I don't know what to say. I'm sorry I cannot imagine what you are going through, so so sorry for all your pain.


    RIP Martha, what a beautiful young lady
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  • savingmummy
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    Oh I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
    (((hugs)))

    I hope you find some help or someone you can let it all out on.
    MSE is a great place to be honest, lots of lovely ears listening and many who have suffered similar losses in one way or another who can totally understand <3
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  • juliep58
    juliep58 Posts: 72 Forumite
    my situation was slightly different in that it was my father who died, he was murdered. all i can advise is that you take each day at a time and don't feel guilty if you have a moment of enjoyment. there will be people who you know will let you talk about her for hours at a time without feeling awkward, seek them out.
    there will be other days when you just want to sleep all day and night, do that when you have to but try and keep them to a minimum. I cant really think of anything just now but please look after yourself.
  • Bluebell68
    Bluebell68 Posts: 162 Forumite
    So very Sorry for your loss
    Martha is still with you even though you cant see her

    she will always be with you an your family
    love Bluebell
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  • m3kx
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    Many hugs x
  • catkins
    catkins Posts: 5,703 Forumite
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    So sorry to hear about Martha.


    I cannot even begin to imagine how you must be feeling but I am thinking of you and your family.


    Take care
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  • lurvlyloz
    lurvlyloz Posts: 877 Forumite
    im so sorry for you loss x
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  • carolineb23
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    I'm so sorry for your utterly devastating news. I cannot begin to imagine what you must be going through. I don't quite know what to say but I wanted to say something. Martha is clearly so loved, she'll be looking down on you and smiling at your pink hair. You have 15 wonderful years of memories in your heart, keep them alive with those who's lives Martha touched. Take care xxx
  • zzzLazyDaisy
    zzzLazyDaisy Posts: 12,497 Forumite
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    I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my beloved sister suddenly - one day I was chatting to her on the phone and the next she was gone. My heart goes out to you.

    Dx
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