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Stephb1986 wrote: »Hi to be honest when i was younger i was a bully i didnt know any better as my dad used to beat us when i was a kid so i thought it was right. I was that bad i went to 2 junior schools i moved to my second one before they kicked me out. And i went to 3 high schools i got kicked out of my first one because of hitting a lad over the head with a ruler the second one was a "special school" and after a year i was reformed and went back into a mainstream school since then ive behaved. Now when i read the reports on what the teachers thought i feel ashamed of what i did. The kids did provoke me until i reacted but im not using that as a excuse, It wasnt my mums fault she had enough of her own problems she was at the end of her teather with me.
I was put in isolation for 2 weeks before they decided to kick me out of that school so really schools dont protect the bullies i know from my own experience.
I dont know what schools do now since ive left but they should get the same treatment as i did.
Sorry for the long post
Stephb xx
P.S Happy Birthday SF :beer:
Well, as proven with your post, bullies are never born bullies, there is always a reason. It's when the bullies are adults they should know better.
However, when they are kids, like yourself should be kicked out if they can't behave.
It's good you are reformed now0 -
fantastico wrote: »I could do with taking up a hobby, any ideas what i could do.
Human Archery?
Pottery?
Collecting Girls Aloud CD's?
Road Running?
Tennis?0 -
Sorry to butt in guys...hope you don't mind too much that I haven't been around.
Although the offsprings' dad walked out many moons ago, I've kept in touch with his family---it's not their fault he's a completeI]enter word or phrase[/I & they are still half of the offsprings' heritage.
Anyhow, one of the bil has had tests this week, & I've just been told--literally minutes ago--that he has the Big C. He has to see a specialist next week, but it's not looking too hopeful, & he's not reached mid fifties yet!
I am so angry that this could happen to such a loving, generous, warm person who goes out of his way to make complete strangers feel at ease. He's the sort of bloke I'd wished I had married.........& there's all those toss pots roaming around getting the Life of Riley......like that twazzuck who faked his own death.
There truly is no justice in the heavens or earth, for this to happen to such a gentle soul...........I know there's a chance it can be sorted, but it's not right that it should happen in the first place.....aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgggghh
Sorry guys, had to tell someone else first, so I can be the positive voice when I tell the offspring. Thanks for being here.
Peaceful Minds folks. BMFx
It always happens to the nice ones sadly, having had first hand experience.
Hopefully he'll defy the odds.0 -
:rotfl: :j you wish Miro
hope you have a great weekend
dont forget to watch Casualty tomorrow,shes in it tomorrow
:rotfl:
Katie
Casualty? Never get the TV after 6pm unless i've pre-booked football with flatmate :rotfl: Had football last night so won't get it twice in 3 days :rotfl:
I'll have to make do with glances in the adverts of her other programmes :rotfl:
Have a nice weekend :T0 -
hi all, feeling really low, sorted sons problems out at school, and he has had a good day there, so i should be happy.
but, i split with my bf over a week ago, it has been kind of on off for a while now, he was always putting me down etc. anyway since we have split, he says, he has realised how much hurt he has caused me, and that he is truly sorry, loves me, and wants to give us another try. the think is i dont want to hurt him further by telling him it is deff over, if there is a chance that he will chance. but my biggest fear is going back to him, and suffering all the pain all over again. we have only been together a year, and in that time, there has been some good times, and some really awful ones, where i attemped suicide twice, and recently started cutting myself. on top of this i have two sons to consider who both really like him, they have had no contact from their own dad for years, but i also dont want them to see there mum suffering and hurting too.
so confused
shaz xenjoy life, we only get one chance at it:)0 -
I always seem to post when no-one else is on.
Maybe I smell
Anyway, things are tough at the moment (when aren't they? but especially at the moment) and I don't see much of a future. All i've ever wanted was to be important to someone, but I guess it's not meant to be, my chance has gone. I see all these horrible blokes who treat their partners bad, but I guess I don't have the x-factor or something and always attract greedy little witches instead of a nice young lady
Just someone to cheer me up sometimes would be nice, someone to share things with, someone to have good times with. I just don't feel I belong.
Hope everyone is doing okay and has a good weekend :T0 -
I always seem to post when no-one else is on.
Maybe I smell
Anyway, things are tough at the moment (when aren't they? but especially at the moment) and I don't see much of a future. All i've ever wanted was to be important to someone, but I guess it's not meant to be, my chance has gone. I see all these horrible blokes who treat their partners bad, but I guess I don't have the x-factor or something and always attract greedy little witches instead of a nice young lady
Just someone to cheer me up sometimes would be nice, someone to share things with, someone to have good times with. I just don't feel I belong.
Hope everyone is doing okay and has a good weekend :T
big hugs
shaz xenjoy life, we only get one chance at it:)0
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