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  • hi,
    bmf....hope you dont mind ....and no offence intened , but i like your type style much more since you changed it in the last 2 posts, as i find it much easier to read.hope you dont mind me remarking. xx
    curly....some very weird ppl on some of the other threads on this site.have noticed too.wonder what ppl get out of being nasty???
    pc....wish you a great hol xx
    hugs to all and best wishes for a good day.
    love ilgd xx
    People bring great joy into our lives..some by arriving, others by leaving.im trying to be one of the former, so please bear with :)

    LOVE ME, LOVE MY NEWFOUNDLAND.:A
  • *zippy*
    *zippy* Posts: 2,979 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    Morning all :hello:

    My two weeks off is over and i'm back to work today :( Really felt great being off and having the family home with me, woke feeling anxious this morning, but feel a bit better now :)

    Maz we are here for you hun :grouphug: so sorry it hurts so much today. As others have suggested do try to get a doctors appointment as soon as you can.

    Poppycracker hope you have a lovely holiday happy069.gif

    Hugs to all
    zippy
  • maz123_2
    maz123_2 Posts: 163 Forumite
    got doctor's appointment at 3.20pm today. going to my friends on sunday to just cry. people phoning for OH and am having to say they don't live here any more.
  • just thought i would ask folks this question

    "does anyone wallow in their condition" like empower it and make it stronger,i know i used to,still do at times but not so much(hopefully)

    andy
    don't get mad do yoga


  • petrichor
    petrichor Posts: 940 Forumite
    Hi maz sorry to read about your problems not-tagged-smiley-14571.gif Re the £10,000 debt, is it all yours or joint? as it would seem unfair if you had to use your equity to clear it if it's not all your own. Our local CAB has very good debt management information and it's free, so hopefully the same can be said for the one in your area and at least it would help with one of your problems. I'm glad that you have a friend to talk to, you are very lucky to have one and I hope you get the strenght to come through this quickly.

    xxxx
    I wish that I could be the oldest AND wisest....sadly it's not the latter :p but my time will come _party_ wooooh hoooh! Beware!!!!!!!
  • petrichor
    petrichor Posts: 940 Forumite
    I had a visit from my CPN and a student nurse this morning, and told them how upset I'd been after my initial session with the Dr last Friday and how it had lowered my feelings throughout the week. The CPN said that it was unusual for such meetings to last as long as 1hr 40mins (even longer than I thought!)and would bring the matter up so that it wouldn't happen again. It was very draining. She also asked if I agreed with what the Dr said about my medication as I had a right to refuse and ask for something different :confused::confused: I was so confused by this as the last time I had intense treatment, many years ago, you were told what to have without any say in the matter. Is this how it's done with any of you please? I must admit that I thought the Dr would know best when it comes to medication. Perhaps it's all the things now about patients' rights, no bad thing I suppose, but how would I know especially the way I'm feeling at the moment. My opinion changes as frequntly as my moods:o .

    Anyway, I do feel brighter than I did first thing this morning so perhaps the talk alone has helped...

    ...andi When I first read your question my immediate thought was 'of course not' but having given it a few moments thought I'm not so sure. Perhaps it too depends on my mood :undecided ...

    ...I hope that you all have a good and stress free weekend and if not, then I hope you find the strength to cope :smiley:

    xxxx
    I wish that I could be the oldest AND wisest....sadly it's not the latter :p but my time will come _party_ wooooh hoooh! Beware!!!!!!!
  • queensway_boy
    queensway_boy Posts: 5,990 Forumite
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    Big hugs to everyone xx


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  • maz123_2
    maz123_2 Posts: 163 Forumite
    Petrichor no its joint debt but it's my equity, while i've been feelng ill, i spend like no tomorrow was managing it was £16000 last year. I think it will get split hooray!

    Been to docs back on tablets, just wish they kicked in quicker!
  • BigMummaF
    BigMummaF Posts: 4,281 Forumite
    Sorry folks---wish someone had said something sooner about the font style, & yes, I have to agree it does look clearer!
    Maz, obviously I don't know [neither do I wish to unless you decide otherwise] the reasons for your current situation. But when my husband walked out, other people could not understand that I needed to grieve. I got so angry that I did actually say to someone, that if he had died people would have accepted my loss, but because he was off chasing some floosy, I was supposed to be thankful he'd gone! So my dear, take as long as you need & to hell with other people's attitudes.
    Rosie posy? Where ARE youuuuuuuuu! :confused: We gotta get ready for Tiff's big smartie party!
    Anyone heard from Tulip yet? Bet she's still down the beach eating ice cream & doughnuts;)
    ILGD...there's a poster IL airedales! Maybe I'll change my monica to IL everyone!:rotfl: :rotfl:
    To one & all, have a good evening & Peaceful Minds folks. BMFx
    Full time Carer for Mum; harassed mother of three;
    loving & loved by two 4-legged babies.

  • rose07
    rose07 Posts: 2,442 Forumite
    BigMummaF wrote: »
    Sorry folks---wish someone had said something sooner about the font style, & yes, I have to agree it does look clearer!

    Rosie posy? Where ARE youuuuuuuuu! :confused: We gotta get ready for Tiff's big smartie party!
    !:rotfl: :rotfl:
    To one & all, have a good evening & Peaceful Minds folks. BMFx

    hey big mumma

    how r u?

    here i am, was hiding under the table:o

    my pain is soo much worse, i know this is going to sound silly, but i have tooth ache, one of my fillings fell out last night, and the pain is excruciating, (worse than period pain). I rang my dentist today but cant be seen till monday, and this is an emergency, i havent eaten all day, coz of the pain, i feel soo tierd and weak atm its just not true. I know its not an emotional thing, but it is getting to me, i cant eat, couldnt sleep, and the pain killers im taking dont seem to be working, im feelin awful. :o

    Im sitting here crying, my mum is having a go at me, im hungry but cant eat, and cant stop shaking. all i wanna do is scream, but even that will hurt.

    I also have soo much going on atm, this is a bad time for me, two things include my gran, bless her heart, her cancer has came back, i find myself feelin awful, i keep thinking i should do more for her, i feel soo helpless, also one of my best friends died recently, i have no words i have .....no words, on top of this i got real bad news that there are also no words for, maybe im just no goood with words atm, so im sorry if im seeming i little off/on edge atm, but just got alot on, and unsure what to do, but i am thinking of you all, and wishing you well xxx

    owww it soo painful (my tooth and inside) :cry:

    why is it, y6u feel you are on your way up .... then....wham

    hows u mum?

    do you think i could have a mum hug? :o can i adopt you?

    k, im off back under the table, and i gotta work tomorrow, on a saturday :eek:, not in the mood

    hope you well, im off for a lie down

    take care

    xxxxxx
    BB B*TCH NO 8
    May your dreams come true and set you free :kisses3:
    Tiff A.S.M 10


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