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  • BigMummaF
    BigMummaF Posts: 4,281 Forumite
    Morning All.............I guess Tiff had a VERY busy day, for her not to have posted yet:p
    The offspring had a minor gathering again last night, & cos I'm not at my best I went to bed early.....but wish I'd got the pooter in my room:o
    Those who feel that some people are less than supportive, & I'm not taking sides here OK, should maybe take a step back from the piece they find offensive & come back & look again later. Sometimes the way things are written can be totally misinterpreted from how the author intended, & I think we are all guilty of not being able :think: to put what we actually want to say into words. Just my opinion folks, for what its worth.....

    Hope everyone is in a safe place today---it's difficult to deal with others when our own demons want to stay numero uno---but hey guys----we got US right? :eek:

    Peaceful Minds folks. BMFx

    Full time Carer for Mum; harassed mother of three;
    loving & loved by two 4-legged babies.

  • BigMummaF
    BigMummaF Posts: 4,281 Forumite
    Maz--get in touch with the Benefits Office soon as, & make an appointment to see your GP. I'm almost certain that given the circumstances, you will get a medical certificate for work, that will give you a little breathing space.

    Even if you are not working at the moment, still see the doc because it will help reinforce your claim to any possible benefits OK? Good Luck babe.
    Full time Carer for Mum; harassed mother of three;
    loving & loved by two 4-legged babies.

  • BigMummaF
    BigMummaF Posts: 4,281 Forumite
    Hey Ikkle Rose bud--wotcha dooo'in? Have you got work today, pet? Let us know you're safe OK? And no, I'm not being nosey--just the 'Mumma' in me making an appearance.......take care.x
    Full time Carer for Mum; harassed mother of three;
    loving & loved by two 4-legged babies.

  • poppycracker
    poppycracker Posts: 1,735 Forumite
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    Morning all :hello:

    Well, just one more day. Actually 25 hours..... then I'm away from this place :j .

    rose, how you doing today? :grouphug:

    welcome maz123, :grouphug: so sorry about the bad news, but BMF and zippy are right, you need space for yourself atm. Keep posting here, there's usually someone here to talk to.

    ((((((big hugs)))))) to anyone who had a bad day yesterday, lets hope today is better. Also, anyone who just fancies a hug, there's plenty to go round!

    PC
    DFW Nerd no 239.....Last Personal Debt paid off Nov 2012!
    Donated 50 pints so far.... gold badge got 17/11/13! Blood Group O+
    mummy to 3 cats, 2 budgies and a cockatiel
  • geminilady
    geminilady Posts: 1,922 Forumite
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    maz123 wrote: »
    Rose go to hospital

    Can i join in?
    I have previously suffered from depression having had 2 bad bouts requiring medication.
    My partner has left tonight leaving me with £10000 of debt. I'm not too worried :o as i have a lot of equity £50000.
    I have no child care so am now stressed and am crying uncontrollably. I need to carry on working but my head is in a mess.:confused: I know what i need to do but can't get my head around everything, feel like i need some moral support any body out there?

    Hi Maz,Welcome to the thread.As others have said if you are working you should be able to get signed off work for a while.It is a big shock to the system when a relationship breaks up so it is no wonder your head is in a mess.All i can say is it WILL get easier.Feel free to post as much or little as you like,you will not be judged on here and you have come to the right place for moral support.
  • geminilady
    geminilady Posts: 1,922 Forumite
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    rose07 wrote: »
    Im in alot of pain, god i feel soo dizzy too

    im not really ok, nearly crying here because im in sooo much pain

    i have rang the contact numbers i have, incl emergency doctor and mobile numbers, but to not avail, im feelin really awful , i feel soo confussed

    i will be fine tho

    how r u?

    xxx

    Hi Rosie,Hope you are ok,not sure wether you were in physical or emotional pain last night but hope you are feeling better today,hope you manage to post to let us know.
  • poppycracker - hope you have a lovely hol

    Maz - Hello and welcome (newbie myself)

    BigMummaF - Thanks - I take it you meant me being offended by sarcy posts:T

    geminilady - good morning!

    Rose - hope you're feeling better and got yourself to hospital....

    And to everyone - be kind to yourselves, and have a peaceful day.....
    Is it payday yet?:rolleyes:

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  • maz123_2
    maz123_2 Posts: 163 Forumite
    still crying, want to go back to bed and not get up. i know it gets easier it just hurts soo much. i feel like saying we can work everything out but i know it's too little to late i've really messed up. feeling very low, just whish i could role my life on a month when it's not hurting quite as much. but in my head i'm lready thinking that in a month i can suggest going out to try to get back, and i know that's not helping my head. i just don't want to break up!!! i hurt soo much
  • geminilady
    geminilady Posts: 1,922 Forumite
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    poppycracker - hope you have a lovely hol

    Maz - Hello and welcome (newbie myself)

    BigMummaF - Thanks - I take it you meant me being offended by sarcy posts:T

    geminilady - good morning!

    Rose - hope you're feeling better and got yourself to hospital....

    And to everyone - be kind to yourselves, and have a peaceful day.....

    Morning Curly,lol do you have curls ?I always wonder how people choose their screen names,mine is obvious but lots arn't.I have been up since 8.30 but not even dressed yet,must get a move on,going shopping again.
  • Morning All,

    Rose07 I hope you are feeling better today

    Maz123 take time for yourself.

    Sending big hugs to everyone. (mistype was bug hugs for everyone :rotfl:)

    I am slowly getting there.

    I hope you all have a good peaceful day.

    Take Care,
    LFH
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